It has been long that i have not recorded my thoughts and appreciation on this blogpage. Now, i'd like to share a simple poem on friendship for us to ponder. This inspiration came around when i saw the smile and happiness on my beloved husband's face upon receiving his friends, some whom he has not met for 22 years.i'd like to take this opportunity to thank all his school friends who visited him at the hospital, also friends whom we meet elsewhere. My special thanks to Cikgu Azanuddin for his humble presence together with the bubbly and vibrant crowd of ex-MRSMJ ... May Allah bless all of you always. Yupp:) Happiness is everywhere, within our reach...and friendship is indeed the magical capsule that supersedes much of the rest.
Forlorn and somber moments fade away as we
Reminisce upon younger schooling days filled with rich tricks and tapestry.
Indeed – this relationship inspires a jovial mood, a glory,
Everlasting and blooming like a patch of yellow allamanda and fuchsia.
Now and forever, we are friends and it shall remain this way
D journey may have its toll; we are still friends and it shall remain this way.
Success, sickness and serendipity, and we shall remain friends forever.
Hitherto, this spirit of mine finds bliss and blessings
In this friendship and relationship that grows and glows in
Pensive ambiance and sincere stratosphere.Thank you friends, for this special delivery.
~zue & shidee~
270 comments:
1 – 200 of 270 Newer› Newest»Dear Zue,
Yesterday 26/4/2010, I actually picked up Cikgu Azanuddin from Quality Hotel after he checked out and sent him to the airport to catch his flight.
He told me of the little get together.
Little did I realise before that I also knew your hubby- Rashidi. Hehe.
Anyway, my please convey salam to Rashidi. My prayers are with your family always.
(You don't have to post this).
RIZLAN GHAZALI CHEWAN
hey ma'am... long time no c ~in here~... hahaha.... i have to say... i was commenting on my friends post about her fight with her close fren when ur latest post popped up... "friendship in bliss".... it was inspiring in a way that i could think more about wat to say to my fren.. well, i hope it's good enough for them... thank you....
frienship. i love this post. it 100% reminds me of my past, i mean a years ago when i'm in form five. (now, i'm studying in uniten, YOUR student to be exact, ENNF (i dont remember the numbers after that) LOL! :P) friends just like a FOOD. we need it almost in our life. without it, we still can breath, but we dont get any satisfaction. Friend, the one who listen to we most, and give the ideas, to rely on, everything. i love my BFF. i love you guys. i love you. HAHA, overreacting, though. thank you :)
hello ma'am..i like this post very2 much..it's remind me when i've met my old friends. i also like these sentence, "This inspiration came around when i saw the smile and happiness on my beloved husband's face upon receiving his friends, some whom he has not met for 22 years." it's very cool~like mas mia said..friends just like a food..and many quotes that remind me to my friends..:) thank you~
I like this article. I still remember my best friends Sodiq B. Napri and Idzwan B. Ibrahim. I knowing them when i in form 2. Many student like to bully me expesialy Muntadher B. Abdullah Sanek. (but now he become pon HEHEHE :) ) this two people always beckup me. I always sharing my problen to them and they helping me and naver let me down. until now we stil contack each other using sms or facebook. Thank you to both of you and i hope both of you sucess in your studies.
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Friendships is another things that most important in our life. Without friendship our life are meaningless. This is because being friends with each other can make our life wonderful. We will know a variety of attitude and problem from many people, which can make us more ready in future.
Other than that, we can share our happiness and sadness with them. For example, when we have problem we can share and asked their advises which at last can make us feel better and happy.
The most important things in friendship are we have to be honest and do not choose who will be friend with us. We have to be friend with everybody and do not judge a book by its cover.
Friendship?What is the meaning of friendship? For me friendship is an in-depth relationship, comfortable and relaxed. Friendship also requires meeting the needs of both friends.Building friendships will takes time. Friendships require self-disclosure so any friendship has risks, talking and listening builds friendships and it also depends on the loyalty of friends.Friendships can not be neglected but must be flexible. When friends have conflict, they have to solved the problem immediately for friendships to continue.Friendships may not last but can lose importance and die gradually. Some friendships end abruptly with unresolved conflict. The worst enemy of friendships is change by one or both friends. There is usually pain with the loss of friendship.Friendship is also depends on our sosial.
friend are everything in life.. without friends we will be so lonely.. our friends would be always beside us whenever we need their help.. our friends would understand our problems or feelings and will try to help us.. we should never fight with our friends.. although i love to bully my friends, i knw they'll be there for me when i need them the most..
'FRIENDSHIP IS BLISS' such a beautiful post.i love it.i do have my own words towards this post.
for me friends is like a'DICTIONARY'.why i do say so because,they are the one who i refer to.to be honest,i tell most of my memories and secrets and problem to my friends rather than my family
friend is more important when we stay away from family,however we must make sure that we choose a good friend as good friend will guide us to a good and proper way.
when i think back about those school days,many vivid memories spring to my minds.some are pleasurable while some are painful.regardless the quality i attach to these memories,they constitute the early experiences of my life.they also help to make me the person that i am today.
as the years rolled by,my friends and i grew up,we already had our own university's life.i am happy that all of us are able to get placed in university's.
finally,i hope we will able to graduate,sucsess and happy as well.i love u all.u are in my soul guys.DO REMEMBER THAT MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS TREASURE AND THE POST TODAY SOUNDS'FRIENDSHIP IS BLISS'!!!!
We share so much of our lives
Our joy and also our pain.
Without you as my friend,
I just might go insane!
(This poem specially to my beloved friend)
Friendship of each personality with other people is one of the social relationships, which are very complex and variable. Everyone loves to have good friends and has his or her own opinion about the quality of such good friends. In my opinion, I prefer to have friends, who also have great willingness in having friends. Other good qualities of friends will be discovered afterwardS.
In is easy to understand that most people want to have friends, who are similar to them. A school friend shares with you most of the time in studying, in playing and such a friendship in many cases continues throughout your life. In the office, people work in teams and in order to get good outcomes, they should have good cooperation and understand each other. Especially, people prefer to spend their free time with close and pleasant friends, with whom they can share their feelings.
These qualities of a good friend can be obtained, but usually not in the first time you meet your partner. In many cases, times and some experiences are needed to be the basis of a friendship. For instance, after overcoming a trouble together is a good chance for people to make friends. You also can have a friend after exchanging confidence with another person in order to help him or her in studying or in jobs. It seems that if you have the willingness to give before you want to receive, you will have good friends, who are also ready to help you.
Having good friends is a big pleasure. From my personal experience, the most difficult step is the beginning. There are many good people around us, but we cannot know them from the very first glance, and it is more difficult to break down the "wall" between us in order to establish a new relationship, the first basis of a friendship. The willingness in having friends or the enthusiastic attitude in cooperating can help us in this initial period. The only thing I want to have is their readiness to have friend.
Last but not least,we will have chances to meet friends if we are willing to have friends and they have, too. Cooperation will help us to know the other good qualities of each other. It is the key to having friends with good qualities.
"True friends are never apart, maybe in distance, but not in heart"..
Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult
to leave, and impossible to forget.
hi ma'am...friendship is the greatest feeling in our life...the sweetest memoriez alwayz came from friendship...
F - findz way to comfort you
R - recharge your mood whenever you feel moody
I - inspire you
E - enjoy with you
N - natural thing with you forever
D - dies for you
that'z true...still now I missed my schoolmatez,tutionmatez and my ns matez a lot..they all are such a good,caring,and wonderful personz...the blog really inspires me and I won't forget my precious gift from the LORD...FRIENDSHIP
What is mean by friendship? Friendship is mean by friendly relation or feelings .Friendship is something that valuable and cannot be buy. Moreover, friendship will born or appear from our true heart and it will grow stronger and will remain forever.
“Life without friendship it’s like sky without sun”. For example there are like light making our life brighter and cheerful. Friendship is and important source in our life especially in university life. Most friendship are like delicate flowers, eventually they dry and die. However, true friend have to be like a cactus that can always poking our true friends so that they will also remember us.
Behind every relation lies a story, some may last, some may end. Whatever path in our life, friendship will last forever and will be written in the book of my heart.
“A friend to me, as you see, is very cool and kind. Helping me out whenever I need her, whenever I’m in a bind. She always knows what I need and gets it to me fast. When my friend and I are together, we always have a blast! Sometimes we nag at each other, sometimes it becomes a fight. However ,because of the way that we are, it usually turns out right.
"Friendship Is Bliss" is a very inspiring article.I totally agreed with the article.Friendship is a very wonderful relationship..and friends are excellent gifts for everyone..life without friends is like a broken pencil..there is no point..for those that do not have friends.However,friends can be good or bad.For example,good friends will always be with us no matter good or bad...just like in the article..eventhough they never meet for 22 years..they still visit their friend who had been admitted in the hospital.this shows the perfect characteristics of good friends.BUT...at the same time friends with bad attitudes also influencing some people into negative habits...such as smoking,drugs,smuggling,and many more.And we must choose our friends wisely.it is always best for us to think twice before making any decision.so that crimes can be reduced by influencing our friends towards good and healthier life style..Lastly,friendship is a relationship that everyone should experienced so that we can get a ticket for success together....
So...friendship. Hadn't got much experience on a good friendship since most of the friends I made were bogus enaugh to be called fair-weather friends. i'm not a friendly lass myself by the way and i kinda pricky in choosing who I wanna be friend with because to me it's very hard to creat a camaraderie in a relationship especially with people we just known for few months.
But I do have some mates who I can actually rely on and they are surprisingly dependable and I heartily appreciate these important people of my life. They are truly inspiring (in so many ways) and it feels so good to know that there's someone out there who actually cares about you.
Friendship is beautiful.It connects everyone and make us one.
My peeps are the only place for me to spit out my problems.I'd be suicidal if I have no one to talk to.
Don't mind me being sappy xx
hi madam, i really enjoying reading this friendship post. Actually, friendship is a real relationship which one who walks in when rest of the world walks out. I am just recalling back all my sweet memories after i read this post. It will never ever come back again in ones life. Overall, FRIENDSHIP IS BLISS have inspired me a lot and i would like to say that friendship is the best relationship in the world.
friends are one parts of my life, make my life very bright. without friends our life become like dim light. i still remember my friends in my school life especially my best friend, Mathana. Beside that, friends also our life partner who shared every good and bad things. Friends are like golden fish for my life and future.so, i don't want to miss this golden fish like my friend Mathana. i hope our friendship will end in death.
Friendship is a simple word that is an extremely super valuable thing in our life. Without friends we can make nothing to success. With friends we play,with friends we learn, with friends we study and without expecting, we can fall in love with our friends. Picking a suitable and a good friend is very important to enhance our life being more systematic. Depends on what type of friend we choose . By the way, i agree that friendship is a bliss because bliss can be defined as supreme happiness. And i'm very happy having friends supporting me all the time. Sharing feelings,laugh together,sometimes quarrel... such a beautiful moment.
I can conclude that ''Friendship'' is a beautiful word because the word ''ship'' means that we can make lots and lots of friends.Even more than just a ship of friends. We all should appreciate our friends no matter where they are and who are they. tQ ^__^
Friendship.. thats the most valuable thing for me. Without our friends, we will not succeed in our life and hence, we will not be able to enjoy our life. Friends help each other whenever one of them is in trouble. Thats what i always do when my friends needed my help. So do my friends. In my opinion, friendship is the most important key to success. A good friend will guide us to be a successful person whereas a bad friend will lead us to all the negative activities, such as smoking, taking drugs and etc. Therefore, we have to select a good friend and always think what is right and what is wrong.
Hi ma'am....frankly,this post attracts me to voice out here..friendship means world for me..without friends who are we? since we are toddler till now as an adolescence,we are simply surrounded by buddies..no matter where and who are we..in my perspective,friends are ONE of the path to success...it sound weird but eventually its a fact..simple,if any problem arouse beyond our limitation,the first person who we will look for is our buddy rather than family..and they as our friend will go all out in order to help us..dats for sure!Besides, we help each other in studies as everyone is not perfect perhaps...group discussion,group studies are few of activities that are carried out with friends.. for instance,when we cant understand something in class,we will be seeking for our buddy's help first..when we fail to overcome it only,we will opt to look for our lecturer..thats the nature of students..on the other hand,friends can be our barrier to success..note it! many got spoil brat just because they 'trust' them unlimitedly..they do every single thing that their friends does and got corrupted at the end..this is just leading them to failure in life..well,choosing the right buddy is essential in order for us to succeed in life...In a nutshell,nothing can be done successfully without friends..THANK YOU..
FRINDSHIP.. a blissful bond that each and every humans has..Our daily lives, we come through many friends.. Some we like and some we hate. We have good friends , true friends and there are many more..Friendship does nt have any requirements and it will never be. We do not have to be family members to be friends and do not need to be related by blood but the understanding between each other is more than enough .
No matter what happens, true friends will be right there to guide you to success and encourage you from depression. No matter how far friends are.. They always remain close to my heart and will be remembered to the day end. Friendship does not expects anything from anyone and this bond will always be great.. Year 2012, might be the end of the world , as been predicted by NOSTRADOMUS, but never for friendship.. Life without friendship bond is similar to life without colours.. Frienship is like a huge family where we are always ONE!!
friendship is something that is very valuable.friends are not easy to be find once we found our best friend for our whole life it will be a really good things.because friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.
with friend we can share everything.
with friend we can have fun together.
with friend we can forget all the sadness we have.
with friend we can leave our frustration and stress behind.
with friend we can learn and gain a lot of things.
friend are like walls,
sometimes we lean on them,and
sometimes its just enough,
to know they are there...
friends are the most great things we will have in our life.Lee Iacocca once said "my father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life"...so do appreciate your friends no matter they are near to you or far to you...
Hello ma'am Zue... To be frank, I was quite a loner since my schooldays. I don't know why, but maybe because I didn't talk much to other people. I thought I could live by my own, alone. Yes I could, but there's this emptiness feeling whenever I see people with their friends doing stuff and having fun together. Thus, I started to make friends and then I discovered that having friends made my life more colourful. I get to share common interests, learn new things and understand different types of human behaviour xD So yeah, friendship: without it, you're living in an empty void.
And of course, who can forget this lyric:
"As we go on.. We remember... All the times we had together... As our lives change...come whatever We will still be friends 4-Ever"
- Vitamin C ~ Graduation Song
Thank you friends, for being my... Friends!! \(^o^)/
friendship. actually i do have a lot of friends. from the primary school, secondary school, matriculation and now in the uniten i have a few for the time. i would love to have a ton of friends because they can light up my day. besides, they can fill the emptiness of my life. they are so important to me. indeed, when you are out there, like finding a job, you will need a lot of networkings to make you easier finding a job. maybe you will have some of your friends could help you someday. your friends just not limited to your kind of age. you can have any range of age that can be friends. by this, it will helps you to know variety of people and learn from them to be more mature. on the other hand, TRUE FRIENDS are difficult to find nowadays. yeah, you can say you have 'bunches' of friends but a friend you share your thoughts, feelings, secrets and more to personal, do you have it?
as for me, back ago i have one best friend that are truly my friend at that time. we shared everything, we had fun together even we know our family each other. but after years being friends, something happened and at that time we starting to lie and betray each other. i trust him so much as repay, he betrayed me. so at that moment i have realised if you have one best friend, you should keep your friendship like a bond between brothers. moreover, we need to care one of another because we need a friend that are caring so that they are care about us and they will do their best to take care of us.
now, i do my best to keep my friendship with my friends as long as we can and i will not forget my friends because a friend is a give from allah so we must take care of him/her. so yes, friendship is bliss.
i like this article.without friend we will not know what is happiness. and when we sad,happy, or having other feelings we need friends to share it.friendships are beautiful.sometimes it can be disappointed when friend cheated on us.but if we get good friend n a loving friend,we'll get all the happiness in this world n get the chance to feel the most beautiful part of the life.i love all my friend in uniten.because they are so funny,caring,loving n sometime crazy.hehe.they will be apart of my life in uniten.
Friendship is Bliss
Everybody needs a friend. This fact are just undeniable. Without friends, we are dull, unhappy and alone.
Friends helps us to see things in different perspectives. And also help us to understand different way of thinking of other people. To illustrate, a lecturer scolded a student infront of other students. I might take in my own way while my friend might think it the other way around.
We can also share a lot of things with our friend. When we sad, in despair, dissapointed. Or maybe when we are happy, joy, feeling marvellous and so on. We can tell them and share the feelings with them. Like Mosese told me, "friend is someone u can share things together..ur ups n downs..". I think it is so sweet when we have that kind of friend. In other words, we can share almost everything with our friends.
But, we have to be very careful in choosing a friend. Being cheated and betrayed by a friend is so hurtful. For me, life's are great and beautiful when we are surrounded by a wonderful friends. And yes, my life is great because my friends are wonderful. Love u, guys. Thanks for always being there for me. Friends forever.
" Friendship is like a computer system. I TYPE in the name, ENTER it in my memory, SAVE it in my heart, and I will never ever DELETE it from my soul."
Friendship. this brings back nostalgia to all of us =) . Talk about the experience of friendship, I believe many people have had good experience and a strong friendship. So i would like to share some nostalgic memories with my good old friend Irfan. He had always cheer me up whenever I'm in a bad mood. He had always correct me if I'm wrong, and never let me down. So the bottom line is, be take of your friends, because someday they, you will never know that they will help you back ^_^. Cheers from -ARIF-
When Bobo Open his mouth : "Friendship is the one of the ETERNAL RELATIONSHIP between YOU,YOU,YOU and YOU!," haha! a bit crazy of me. sometimes there are lot of craziest,funniest,sorrow,anddddddd *drum roll* PROMISES! , i don't get it,why in a relationship,there must be a PROMISES!?? it is because to show us that we appreciate every single things/moments to share(maybe). I've went to SIX/ENAM/6/siksaton(arabian) SCHOOLS and also NATIONAL SERVICE! so i do have lot of friends, if i list here, i think there is no more spaces for my UNITEN's friend to give a comments! haha! i do remember their names, so,everywhere i go, i think i'll meet some of them somewhere! weee~~
btw,
p/s : I'm Friend Chooser. haha!
hye madam. very nice post.
Everyone needs friends. No matter how successful you become, money is worth nothing if you have no one to spend it on and enjoy it with! life without friends would be dull and boring!!
having friends is like having a family. I have someone to talk with about my problems, protect me, do their best for me, and support each other. and I do the same thing to them... it's not because she/he is my friend..., but it's because friendship is about love, need, and care each other . .
friendship is like a cure for a virus. As a student that run a university life, frienship is like a family. This is because, firends are the nearest person to us in campus. Any problems we can share with our friends. There are also some of the problems that we might not share with our family members but we are more comfortable to share with our friends. I still maintaining my friendship with my lower grade school friends and when we organise a reunion we still feel like a family. Friendship is like a love, more than you love your girlfriend. This is because, friends for me is the person that there are no boundary to share any problem with them.
friend..such a good thing came in my life..i agree with your topic that is friendship is bliss..without friend, our life will feel incomplete..we cannot live alone especialy when we are in university..so,take care of your friend because they are important for us..
sarah said
assalamualaikum puan zue..
i just love this post very much.yes,friendship is a bliss.actually,this post reminded me about my besties named nurul syafina.she currently studying in MSU right now in Shah Alam,she's taking pharmacist there.and we have been friends like many years ago.to be exact,i have known her since primary school, but we started to become friends or best friends when we were in Form 2.and we still keep in until now.hope it be like this forever.
frienship is greatest thing in te world.Everyone should have friends soo that we can share our problems.Sometimes we need help from them so we must appericiate their friedship.Hope..,ma friedz allwayz keep in touch with me.lastly i wish they will succeed in life.
Can anyone live without having one or two friends in their lifes?, my answer is NO.A good friendships is an individual's sense of happiness and overall well-being. The beauty of this comes when you fill you've gotten to that cross road and you have lost hope , then a friend is the antidote you need to bring alive the will and enthusiasm to make it again. SO lets start appreciating the good friends we have and try to do away with the bad ones.
Assalamualaikum... Long time no see... After nearly 18 years of living... now i know that there are 3 types of friends... The first one is as your husband's friends... They will always be there for you in your time of need... The second one is the one who only seek for friends when they really need them... And the last one is the one who dont need you at all... simply said you cant even cal him a friends... Well thats all from me today... GTG now because other student is going to use the lab...
Friendship is one of the most precious things man can find. We, humans, as a social being, had been living in groups and making friends since thousands of years ago. Friends can benefit us in many ways. For instance, if we get into a sticky situation, friends can give us a helping hand. Real friends will look after each other's back, sometimes even play the role of our parents. They play, study and work with us besides guiding and advising us when we encounter hardships. You KNOW you have a "REAL" friend when he or she constantly encourages you to push the envelope and move out of your usual comfort zone to push yourself to be a better person. All in all, everybody should make real friends in their lives so that we will have some companions to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity together in this long journey called "life" .
Assalamualaikum pn.zue
and hi everyone,my classmate..
~(ORIENTATION WEEK)~
tukkk3!!tukkk3!!!!yuhuuuuu..
im knocking the door in front of my house..emm..ishhh..
assalamualaikum..yup,its better..
someone with "blink2" eyes open the door..huhu,may be sleepy..oh,she's malay..
(my heart said)..hey,what's up..
sorry for disturbing..
my name sazlinda and just call me saz.(with a bright smile)=)
'im sofia',she said..ok,nice to meet you my friend..can i call you friend?(wierd question)..she said,
'oh,of course why not'?..she smile..'i just want to give you something'..here it is..
jeng..jeng..jeng..its RAMBUTAN!!!
(in plastic bag that already tied)
'from my hometown..keh3..',
(actually not far,from nilai..huhu)
she said,'oh my god,thank you so much..!i really like it..'.
(THIS IS THE BEGINNING OF OUR FRIENDSHIP..BECAUSE OF RAMBUTAN.
HAHAHA....NOW I KNOW SHE IS MY CLASSMATE.AND WERE REALLY CLOSE.
SHE IS A KIND PERSON THAT I CAN RELY ON,WHO ALWAYS LISTEN TO MY PROBLEM..AND ALWAYS INSPIRING ME..
I LOVE U SO MUCH..MMMUAHHH..TQ FOR BEING MY FRIEND SOFIA..)
for me friendship is the most valuable things for all of us.i think i cannot live without my friends because im the kind the guy who is very social.i always look for my friends especially when im bored.i really miss all my bff back in school days but the new friends i made here is also great.
so,no matter what happen in your life.dont forget your buddies aite ;)
totally agree friendship...tis post make me refresh back many memories about my friends...we noe each others from childhood to teenager..we r veli close for almost ten years..but now we were all seperated..we went to diff University or College to continue the education journey..i miss all my friends...i promise our friendship will last forever even u all n me will less contact or meet...i promise!!For me now in UNITEN...friendship is build-ing..Friend,whose not onli listen to we most and give ideas but is also accept us in apperance and oso attlitude...make friends is oso a journey in our life..tis is becauz friendship is bliss~~In the final say,i like all my friends...thx u all along my life...sharing happiness and oso sadness together wif me...!!
"Friendship is bliss"...
wonderful article Pn. Zue...
Speaking of friendship, brings me memories of the past, those schooling days, "what a time it was"... really miss it...
During those schooling days, me and my friends use to manage events organized by our school.
Based on my experience, to manage this, a lot of leadership skills and team work...in this case, without a good friendship, i believe it's impossible to succeed not only an event but also in life...
In my opinion, friends can be also classified as the most valuable gift of God, if u choose the right "one's"...
or else, u'll definitely held to crisis...
Finnaly, i will like to end with a poem,
The best of friends,
Worth more than gold,
Give all the love,
A heart can hold.
Hi, Pn.Zue..
i really happy to give my opinion to this post "friendship is bliss".
everyone very moment need someone to give support to us. on that moment friends will be there for us.
my friends always be there for me when i need them. for me freindship is like another heaven.
that is absolutely diffrent heaven that only give us happiness in our life.i learn about true relationship, love, teamwork and many more from my friendship.not only wen i'm at primery and secondary school but now at UNITEN also i have a lot of friends truely be with me and help me.
at this great moment i want wish thanks to all my friends for always being with me wen i happy and sad.
thanks guys.. love u all.no matter what happen, no matter how long we are not see each other but in our heart we are still friends untill end of the world.
friendship...it was great thing in this world....friendship seldom grows out of obligation...if you think you should be friends with someone, don’t bother....the desire to spend time with someone is the only reason to be friends...friend not only supports who you are, but brings out the best in you....Friendship is harmony, friendship is peace, friendship is bliss.
Friendship is harmony. Mutual harmony removes all dark conflicts.
Each individual has opinions of his own,
but when friendship becomes the connecting link between two persons,
all conflicts are removed and they become one....There’s no greater comfort that a trusted friend....
lastly...william shakespeare say... "I count myselt in nothing else so happy
As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends."
that is fiendship....cum boys n gurls we have a friendship....dnt be shy to found ur friend...be brave....thank you....
wow..friendship..its means a lot to me(and i bet everyone too)...my life will become worthless when there was no one that i can called friend...friend is somthing that money can't buy...bcause it need much2 more than that...trust and love is the food of true friendship..
=gurlz.. i miss you guys soo much..you guys really change me=
thank you... ;B
leyanaldi
Dear Madam Zue,
Friendship is something I called it a gift. First of all, it is because when we go through thick and thin in this life, they always are our supporter. They didn’t let us behind because they love us. Friends are our crying shoulder when we want to cry. Friends are our music of life when we want to be happy. We go shopping together, watch movies together, study together, and play together. Even now, we’re staying at the hostel and for 24hours we’re going to be around our friends. From there we getting so close that we don’t call them as our friends anymore, we call them a family. Friendship is very important because they bring joy in our life. For the conclusion, without them we’re going to be lonely. Well, being alone is not the best thing to do. So everyone goes out there, find someone, and build a bond with them which we call a bliss friendship.
salam madam zue.
sorry for the late reply.i am very2 sorry.
friendship? What is friendship? friendship is a close relationship between the friends of friends. when story about friendship, it reminds me about my two besties which is Shira and Shakira. They also known as my double S.
ok! about friendship.
Besides family, friends is very important in our lives. without friends, we being a loner person. we can not live alone in this world. friends light up our day. in university life, we spend a lot time with friends. eating, sleeping, shopping, going to the class of all the activities we did with our friends.
In this friendship, we must be honest and help each other. Do not be selfish or backstabber. we need choose friends wisely because friends is the source of all things. good friends we choose, then they will determint we are. good friends will always support everything we do. good friends will always be besides us even we in the difficult or easy time. we can shared a lot things with them.
F.R.I.E.N.D.S
thanks for everythings :)
i do love u guys so much. always do keep in touch and dont forget me. thanks for being my friend.no matter what happen, no matter how long we are not see each other but in our heart we are still friends until the end of the world.
Greetings Madam , It was quite touching to hear that your husband's friend came to visit him even after 22 years of seperation , definitely it was a great friendship that ties both of them together , I hope , I too would have the same friendship like your husband , to have friends who cares for you even after 20 years . A friend in need is a friend indeed , your husband have great friends . I hope your husband will get well soon :) , - sincerely - Asyraf :)
assalamualaikum mdm zue,
i have to say sorry because i'm very late to post my comment.:) ok,"Friendship Is Bliss" well,that is a good post because it can reminds me about my friends since i'm in secondary school, primary school and now in the Uniten. As far as i know, friendship is a relationship between people who are friends. Until now,i'm still remember what my friends and i had done since we were in Form 4 until Form 5.
All things we had done together. We always sharing our problems together and even we had separated now because continue our studying,we still keep in touch and contact each other. I hope that all my friends will be successful person and achieve their goal to have a good career one day. N o matter what happens,our friendship will stay forever.
Remember,a good friend is friend which is always be on your sides. mdm zue,i'm so sorry again because very late to post it.
Thank you.:)
Well Today I would like to talk about an important thing .
It is a friendship,it is that connection between two or many persons that they have many common things to share.every person like to have a lot of friends.Friends are our supportor they our secrets keeper.someday one of my friend send me a nice sms "Friendship like a war easy to start difficult to end and imposible to forget " .So my all friends I have a war with you I hope that you do not want peace.Finally I qoute "Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity".We know that we without friend will be lost
Salamualikum ma'am..
I would like to talk about the greatest thing in our life; it is the friendship because I miss my friends in my country. Firstly I would like to describe the friendship by some words, friendship is like a city, and this city couldn’t anybody access with any passport just who have the faithfulness passport. So the faithful is the base of any friendship.
I have friends that I can count on for anything and I have fair-weather friends that are near for me when they need something. A good friend listens to problems and gives you useful advice to solve the problem. A friend who is always supports you. The friends come and go but true friends always stay. Finally just I would like to say to my friends:
True friends are: Hard to find, Harder to leave, And Impossible to forget....” and,
True friends are like morning, you can't have them the whole day, but you can be sure they will be there when you wake up tomorrow, next week, and next year.
Hi ma'am,
I would like to thank you for this article .
Friendship is a little thing we did that makes a big different in our life. when I read your article I was yearning to see my childhood friend that we were to gather for long time during the primary school , high school until the university . we think our God love us that makes us in same college because we can't choose the college as we like that the choose depending on our CGPA and my CGPA more than his. By the way I believed by sentence that " A friend in need is a friend indeed". I remember when I told him about study aboard. At that day , He didn't come to my home to say good bye just call me and he was crying. Eventually , we are complete each other and can't live without each other.
friendship ...a friend in need is a friend indeed? ... ha ha when we need them they are there for us ...otherwise no...
friendships last forever ... they seek you after a long time ...
Its really hard to find a true friend in this world.We may have thousands of friends but out of that thousand there will be only one which will the best we can ever had.It is really important to have a true friend beside you all the time.Firstly,they are the one we share everything with.There will definitely be a time where you can't share something with your family.This is when you will need your friend more than anything.We need them to give their opinion about our problem as they understand us more better than other people.On the other hand,a true friend is really necessary because besides your family,they are the person who will be encouraging you in life.Encouragement is really important as it is the factor that going to take us to a higher level.A true friend will always encourage you towards a good path and they will never let you go down.Therefor,choose good friends in life as they are the best treasure of your life.I have one and i will always cherish her until my last second of my life.
hi Pn Zue
I love this topic so much.Friendship is the best thing in this world.Person who does't appreciate their friendship is a loser for me.Friend is the close person after our family.I have a lot of friend.There is one is my BFF her name is Nur Hazirah binti Huziabidi,we start friend when i'm in form 4.We still contact until now.She always help me in anything although is in bad time or good time.That why she become my BFF.She always support me.she is person that always support and help me after my family.Friend is just not a friend,friend is a person who can help you not in good time only but also in bad time,friend also is not person that help you to do bad thing.To sum up,friendship is the best thing in life always love your friend... I love all my friend..
Ahh haa!I like this article.. :) For me,friendship is an in-depth relationship.It also reminds me of my past..What i mean is my past sweet memories and some tragedies.. Friend the one who listen to we most,share some ideas,solve problem, and go through everything in our life together..For me,I have a really true friends in my life..My real true friends that I refer is Muhamad Haizam and Ahmad Wafiy..I being friends with them since I in primary school..until now,I still be friend with them..A lot of thing we do it together..We overcome difficulties and enjoy being together..I do not know what will happen to me if I lost them.. For information,I am very a choosy person in choosing friends..
HI MAM..frendship is a wonderful thing..i have a lots of friend but close friend until now no...but most of my friends will help me when im in trouble or facing any problems..when long time we didnt see each other then we meet that time wil be so glad to see them..we will be starting to share experience that happen..friendship relation is a relation that cannot forget coz it will have sweet memory and also sad memory..but anyway this relation is differ and unique..
friendship............
yup actually it is wonderful relationship...a friend is actually here to help and always be with us through troubles and trials.
when i was in school i had a group of friends that always help me no matter in what type of situation although all of us had any problems it will be solved
And now here im having friend too....a super and nice friends that is helping through my problems and even subjects...........actually there are good friends in our lifes.....
When talking abaout friendship, all people of course have their own best friend. But, is it he or she know what is friendship stand for? Is it just a words? Both of them does not know about that. The true friendship should have a good attitude and a good perception in each other. Good attitude means in friendship we must trust each other. Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, frustation, and so on. For example, when friends got a problem we should help them. We need to be able to share a lot of things together. Without them, we often feel betrayed and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no nagative thoughts and no turning away.
Besides, forgiveness attitude also important to got true friendship. Real friends encourage one onther and forgive one another where there has been an offense. For example, when a friend do some mistake with us, we just advised them and and forgive them. When we do so, the friend will be okay for a long time. We love our friends no metter what and we always want the best for our friends.
I like this post very much. This is because friendship is so important to me. Its remind me about my past when im in primary school, then secondary school and now in uniten. I got a lot of friend during primary and secondary but the best part that i never forget about my friends is when im in form 4. I got some friends which is really kind and nice. They really helpful especially when i have some problem with one subject especially add math. They help me solve the problem. Not just that, their head also crazy2 one. Haha. I still remember we get so much fun in the class until we're in form 5. But then, after form 5 we have to separate for a while and only can meet when we are same semester break.
Eventhough like that, when i went to university which is now im in uniten i never thought that i still can get a friend just like i get when im in secondary school. In here, i got my gang which is one head with me. What people always says friend with crazy2 one. Haha. I really2 thankful that i still have friends like this in uniten. We are together not just for fun but also when one got problem, the rest will help until his/her problem have been solved.
This kind of friendship that we need in this world. Friendship is the second one things after family because with friends we can share anything such as problems, opinion or anything that we want to share with them. so, final remark for this post is sharing is caring. ^^
salam puan zue...
hmmm,friendship???Different people have different definitions of friendship...for me,friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person.this is because, when we have some problems, we can refer it to our friend..we can share anything with her/him...so friend are very important in our life so much....i can't live without friend...in my life,friend are very important because when i'm going to boarding school in form 1,for sure i'll far apart with my family so i only have my friends to trust on and make me cheer up in my life...when i was homesick,i will cry on my rumates shoulder...and she will calm me and then when i'm ok we started to do some crazy things like singing very loudly in our room then the people in the other room will sound us to keep shut up....many of funny things that my friend and i do during my secondary school such as we enter the guys hostel, we climb the trees just because to pick the mango,and we fly just because to went to the beach and to went to the restaurant outside our school and many more....with friends,we can do anything that we like and without them, i'll be lonely just like the Akon song..haha..but friend in university are different with my friend in school but never mind,as long as i can trust them and they don't do anything bad on me, i will keep the friendship until i die...friendship is bliss, beautiful, eternal,meaningful in our life!
=)
Friendship is a very interesting word; have a very wonderfull meaning, can bring happiness and also tragidies. As we all know, friends is very important in life. There's no way a person doesn't have friends at all. There are many types of friends.Two types that are very common are friend that change us to be a usefull person and the other type is friend that can destroy our life. The first type of friends is the one that influence us to be a good person. They will lead us to positive activities such as never escape classes and do some good work. Good friend are willing to help and sacrifice us when we are in trouble. Like Walter Winchell said, " a friend is one who walks in when others walk out".
Next, they are also friends that can destroy our life. They may involved us to negative activities. Examples such as drugs, robbery and many more. When we are in trouble they will walk away. These kind of friends just want to have fun and do not think of their future. Therefore, we must be clever when making friends.
Friendship....friendship.....friendship..... what a meaningful word it is..... A friend not only supports who you are, but brings out the best in you. A genuine friend knows that when one of you succeeds, you both succeed...
thats friendship..... i have a lot of friends in my school time which is most of them are malay girls who i still have contact with everyone to share our happiness and also sadness...thats the meaning of a real friendship....
i really thank to the god to give me such a schoolmates for me... not only in school, now i have a lot of friends in UNITEN too.....
most of them are really caring and also friendly.....Friendship is the bridge between two human beings. Friendship is the bridge between earth and Heaven. Friendship is the bridge between the known and the unknown. Here on earth we try to establish friendship with our fellow human beings. Sometimes we are successful, sometimes we are not. But even when we are successful, this friendship does not satisfy us completely. Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
As i says,
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Just walk beside me and be my friend
A special friendship poem from me who describing about my friends...
We all need someone
To talk to in our life,
A friend to whom we run
In times of stress or strife
A friend who's always there
Throughout the years,
A friend we know will care
And take away our fears.
A friend who's always near,
Waiting for our call,
To wipe away our tears,
And lift us when we fall.
A loving friend indeed,
On whom we can depend
To fulfill our every need -
Thank you, precious friend
Salam,
Whow! this is very challenging that I have to comment about friendship. I know about meaning friendship but, the thing is that I have some trouble with being socialize with people around . Well, the truth is when I was dump kid back then . I was kind of like being lone wolf ,who likes being alone ,does not packs with another people ,don’t talk so much with other kids and always find place where calm and there is no people around.
And then , change myself I started to make move . Tried to be friendly with people around and of course with silent smile . Everyone at my school surprise that I have change , then I found my best buddy Alif Asyraf who likes to learn my art drawing .
“Whooa did you draw this ? Awsome ,dude teach me how you draw manga(comics).”he said.
“Umm…sure thing.” At first ,it quite hard for me. But go on and on and then I’m ok with it .
Not long after that I got strange feeling it’s hard for me to describe it . Somehow it feel like happiness of being friend with people . From that experience I learn true meaning of friendship . My friends always help me out when I’m in trouble . When I was form 4 I was not good with computer , luckily with their help I could go on and now I’m ok with it . The other event , which I participated in running 5km .They know that I’ll eventually lose in that game but still give moral supported for me . Funny part is ,when they cheered for me I was looked at them as I went off the track. With friend you can also share opinion and thought . For example , like I just told you my story we exchange knowledge I teach them how to draw and sometimes I help them tips for math. In exchange they share with computer knowledge like I don’t even know how to save the file ! And best part there is kindness . Their warn me something that I should not do . I was naïve back then , even till now . Therefore , true friendship is precious treasure it’s not easily found in everywhere just like Cindy Lew said “Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends.”
Salam Pn.Zue?
Friendship is very meaningful. True friendship is built when we laughed and grieved together. We need each other and respect each other. Sometimes, we fight. But, forgive me.
O friend, I hope that this friendship would last until whenever. If not together anymore, lasting memories in the soul. (Sound very sad)
"No friends, no live no love no laugh"
i love this post much. there was nothing else matter to accompany us than as a friends.
we should make a lot of friend. who know, one of them might be one of our soulmate.awww... :)
dear maam, i have another acronim for friendship :
Friendship's
Role
Is:
Every
New
Day
Sharing
Happiness
In
Plenty!
so, make friends, not foes.
wowie...menaga & El..that's a wonderful contribution. Thanks for d poems...really meaningful. I'm sure others will enjoyt them, too...
According to the Oxford dictionary, “friendship” denotes the meaning “the emotions or conduct of friends; the state of being friends” or “relationship between friends”. However, I’m certain the meaning of “friendship” does not end there and I believe it doesn’t have a proper, defined terminology. As for me, friendship is indispensable to human beings. Is there such a thing that a person does not have a friend? I strongly doubt that. Furthermore, the aptitude to have friends is a blessing from God, as He does not want us to be forlorn. I’m sure friendship is signified in all affirmative religions. Many people look for diverse characteristics in friends, which may be common in nature. Friendship is definitely bliss, as long as we select our friends wisely. There this popular wisdom I absolutely concur with, “You judge a man by his friends”. If you have foolish friends, you more probably will follow their traits, and vice versa. Besides that, one should have a true friend whom they can place their trust to, have a shoulder to cry on, be given words of courage, encouragement and so forth. As for me, I have known my best friend for 13 years, and she’s truly my true friend. She could be my definition of “friendship” and I’m glad I have her in my life. There’s a quote I would like to share by Elbert Hubbard, “A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same”.
Friendship is the important thing for me after family. I cannot live without all of my friends beside me. My fiends are my strength, without them I feel just like old tree without fruits, leafs and branches.
When there are no friends beside me, I will feel lonely and feel like the day moving very slow like thousand years. But when with me, I feel wonderful and feel like my life is complete. The moments them with me will cherish my life.
So, like el said
"No friends, no live no love no laugh".
I think I have the greatest group of friends..I love them very much..
we're buddies actually..we have shared a bunch of experience together..we've did a lot of things, from very bad thing to the most good thing on earth..I can't believe that we will become the person we were today..there was a very very different us back then.that's God power.. Alhamdulillah, we've found the right path..
Dear Pn Zue
FRIENDS are the people that we really need in our life.To me,a life without a friend is like a nightmare.I love my friends so much,they are the people that i always share my feelings to.I personally think that friends understand us more than anyone else in this world.A day without talking to my best friend will make me feel awkward.Besides that friends usually will not lie to us,they are the ones who will tell us anything although the truth might hurt us.Thats the attitude that really makes me to love my friends a lot.
Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal. not only that,True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.i have a true and a very special friend in my life who alwiz there for me when im sad or happy..he is just my friend not more than that but he always care for me always will make me happy wheneva im sad..he is also the only person i feel like sharing my sadness and all..im so happy to have a friend like him in my life..the simple way to tell him is in a poem :
My Best Friend
Today I found a friend,
Who knew everything I felt.
he knew my every weakness,
And the problems I've been dealt.
he understood my wonders,
And listened to my dreams.
he listened to how I felt about life and love,
And knew what it all means.
Not once did he interrupt me,
Or tell me I was wrong.
he understood what I was going through,
And promised he'd stay long
I reached out to this friend
To show him that i care
To pull him close and let him know
How much I need him there
I went to hold his hand
To pull him a bit nearer
And realized that this perfect friend I found
Was nothing but my mirror.
not only he but many of my friend are also care for me...here is a poem specially for my lovely friends in uniten n also my schoolmates..
a good friend
is always like the star
you don't always see them
but you know they're there..
and finally i would like thanks pn.zue for this awesome tittle which helps me to tel me about my friend...
friendship is one of the ingredient to have a better life.without friend,its hard for you to live.
I think girls do need friend the most because they always have something to shared no matter it is personal or about other people.
For me it is really hard to find real friend which they will stick with us for better or worst,while we happy or sad.I do have 2 friends which is call them as true friend,because i knew them very well and i know most of the thing about them.We've been together for 5years.
I remember when we are in secondary school that time is school holiday,i cried because i missed them so much and we cant meet for a few weeks.We also cant hangout together because their parent wont let them go out,so we just texting each other for 24hours.
Im still with them,friends like before but where a fall apart since one them is at Shah Alam and another one is at Sunway.
So thats all from me.
APPRECIATE UR FRIEND :)
hi Pn zue,
i love to read your article about friendship. yes, friendship is something that very treasure for everyone.
when i read your article, i was thinking what would be happen if something happen to me? if there any of my friends will help me or will be there for me? of course, we don't know what will happen in future, right? but still, have a good friendship will always be a fabulous friend ever.
i don't know much about friendship because most of the time in friendship, i always be betrayed by friends. so, i never have a true friend ever. who someone that can we rely on, someone who can we share the pain, laughter, happiness or even do something stupid or crazy thing together. it would be nice to have a precious moment like that.
lastly, im very sorry for the late respond to your article.
Hi Pn.Zue,
I was waiting for our next online class thingi :D Seeing your e-mail just made me think that you have read my mind!
Friendship...
Making friends have been a very very important aspect in life. Without friends, a person is nothing. From my point of view, friendship is actually the ultimate goal in life.
Most people says that, making money is the most important but I really want to go against that. There is a saying, "What is the point of gaining the whole World but not having anyone to share it with". This quote really inspires me ever since I was a little boy with busy parents finding for the world's greed. This is where I learn that friendship is so important and valuable. Ever since then, I learn to appreciate my friends more, helping them in anyways possible, being by their sides and even making new ones.
Honestly, I feel that I have no problem making new friends in new environment, place, or culture.
What I really want to say here is how to treat a friend as a friend.
Many mistaken friends in alot of ways. Some have "Bank friends" which are friends that provide them with money in some ways. Some have "Face friends", friends that provides reputations. We even have what we call "Dumb friends". These are those who only comes to play when they need something out of them. Many deny this, but to tell the truth, this is the way the world teaches us all to be. Friends should not be toys. Friends should not be only there when u need them. Friends are people you will be for the rest of your lives. Friendship never dies. Friendship is even said to last forever. Even "couple love" is said to be below friendship. Friendship can build and evolve into something greater to an extend that no one can ever break it. Friendship brings joy, happiness, and love. This is why Friendship is so AWESOME!
Sorry for being draggy...It's just that I really want people to know that Money cannot buy Friendship. And once a friend, forever a friend.
~FRIENDS FOREVER~
Hi Pn.Zue
Yes,friendship is one of the most precious things in our life. Humans are living creature that have to go in group and no one should live alone without any friends.
This post makes me recall back those memories past 2 years when i was in secondary school. I have a group of friends which we play together,study together for SPM,talking nonsense,and we did whatever it is possible. Those memories really make me feel blissful and i always wonder that if i have chance to go through that moment again. Although we will still meet again whenever there is holidays but it will not as close as last time as everyone of us go to a different place to pursue our further study. And now,i have made another gang of friends in UNITEN and it makes me feel nice =)
Besides from our own parents,friends are the only person that will help us whenever we are in trouble(only those true friends). So,please choose wisely.Haha,i think that's all from me~good night.
Dear Alex,
I especially like your categorization. WITTY! and of course...most importantly, we must also learn to express our appreication for the frienship we have nurtured..and that's the bliss of sharing..i believe...
HI PN.ZUE..:)
Truely speaking,tis is my first time writing on ur blog and its because of some problems.I will inform you bout this when we meet next.Nyways,"Freindship is Bliss" is really a gud one.As i was reading this post,the only thing which came into my mind was about my best friend.Although i know him only for 9 months,but it feels like i knew him very long ago.Seriously speaking,he is a person whom i really wouldn't wish to loose in my life.I realised the true meaning of friendship afte knowing him.Besides that,i do hav other frens who are really special to me n i will like to thank them for actually being my friends.True friends are the only people that will be together with us till the end."A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else".Thats all about it which i would like to share.Thank you=)
Most of us think that we have "friends". Are they really friends, or are they just another person in our lives ?
Good evening, Pn Zue.
Leaving family and a love partner, friends are the most important people in our lives.There are two types of friends. One is a friend that is truly deserved to be called a friend(true friends), and the other is just a disgrace in the name of friendship. A true friend is a person that goes through life's ups and downs together with you.A true friends, tells you the truth, even though it hurts, because he/she want the best for you.On the other hand, there are people who just pretend to be your friend.As long as you are beneficial to them, they will be with you.However, the very moment when you have a problem , they just get out of your sight.These type of so called friends usually do not tell the truth. They may say something , but think something else. These type of people are the happiest when you 'fall'.Therefore we must be smart enough to know who our friends really are. Being a very sociable person, i have so many friends, but sometimes i wonder, who really are my true friends. So, have you find your true friends ?
Let me put it this way....If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t jump with them, I’d be at the bottom to catch them. Without friends, life would be a dull gray journey. However, any person can make friends. The trick is to make worthy friends. Lots of your friends want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Hello mdm...this post could cause tears even a person like me lol, it is true that everyone, every person in this world need at least a friend to listen our thought, share feelings, jokes..but sometimes it is tough when people around us hard to understand ourself just by looking at his/her outside look and leave us alone..and it is hard to find true friend(s) that really understand how we feel, why we act like this and behave like that,..every person have its own nature and we should understand that..:)
hello ma'am,
Good friends should always be there for each other, in the good times and the bad. It’s easy to be friends with someone when life is exciting and you’re both feeling happy, but it’s harder to keep the friendship on track when it’s getting tough.
This post is just awesome which makes me to remember those memorable time I had with my friends when I was in secondary school. There are few of them I know since in the kindergarten times. It’s really years we know each other and we all are so close to each other .Hell yeah, we will be having fun in the class, doing nonsense, playing truant sometimes and do whatever we like together. However none of us get jealous when our friends score high or what, but they the one will help each other to score. This what people said a large part of friendship is learning lessons together, and for almost everything in the world there is a lesson that must be learned.
But now, at here in uniten, I have few friends that I can count on them. It’s really nice to be with them. Quite fun although not as with my long terms friends but this just the beginning in my foundation studies with them. There are one of my friend really inspire me till in this 3rd sem and he the one makes me to score well in my previous sem. Without him I couldn’t cope up I guess. Thanks to him.
And I would like to say a friendship is something very personal and powerful and plays an important and unique role in my life.
Friendship is a gift from the God. As for me, friendship has always been something in my life, quite a something I should say. Without a friend, you never value the joy of a true friendship. You learn to trust people as you trusted friend and speak out your thoughts without fear. Practically, you feel free to do almost anything while friend along. For friendship as friend in the same ship (life) with us facing the waves (challenges) in front, there is up and down but we can certainly get to treasure the moments with our friend therefore, friendship is indeed a bliss.
beside family , friend is the only people tat can share & help everythng with u . sometimes even friend can help u more than others ... as a college student that who live in hostel , they will be clear that the 1st people that give a hand when u face any problem is ur friend . bt some friend make friend with u is because of benefit that he/she can get from u , some of them will not same ...
Friendship is bliss.Its true.Friendship is very important.friendship is the union of spirits,a marriage of hearts,and bond of thereof virtue.True friendship is never serene.Friends are the flowers in the garden of life.Friends are the person who will b with us when we go school,college or university.So friends will be right there to guide you to success and encourage you from depression.Friendship is a treasured gift,tht gives our heart a lift,a blessing we just cn nt do without;because friendship is what living is all abt.Friends who are the person cn help us in emergency.So true friendship is a light in darkness.Friendship will never apart.May b in distance but not in heart.
tnx
frm:thina
Hi ma'am. To me, friendship is one of the source in our life for keeping us moving forward. Without it, my life will be miserable. Just like what Chinese says "We rely on our parents in our house, and we rely on our friends outside the house." Indeed, friends are important and also the only people we can rely on especially in university where our family is not around. By reading of this article reminds me of the sweet memories I had with my old friends during secondary school.
It was them, who I always share my happiness and problems with. We eat, laugh, cry together, doing crazy stuffs together. And it was them, all of my friends, who keep me motivated all the time, giving me the energy source to keep moving forward in my life.
So what I'm trying to say here is, without friends, we are nothing. Imagine you owned everything in this world, but you are alone. Would you feel happy? I bet you wont't. As that's how normal human feels. Human are social animals, they cannot live by themselves alone. So go out, find your truthful friendship of your own. And live happily with it....
Friendship. A meaningful word for me. Whenever I see this word anytime or anywhere, it automatically reminds me where I came from, the place where those childish yet invaluable memories blossoms in my life. My friends and I, had known each other for around 7 years, since standard 4. When we were separated to different secondary schools, I thought we couldn't make it anymore. Yet when I transfer to their school at Form 4, I found out what the true meaning of everlasting friendship meant. I thought when I step in the class, they will be just a stranger for me BUT they aren't. When we met, everything turns back to our childhood. We then started creating even more memories. We played together, studied together, slept together. We did almost everything together at our form 4 and form 5 years. Now that we again are separated in different universities, or different countries, I deeply believe that this friendship bond between us never separated. I know that someday when we meet again, we'll be just as the old days. Just as childish, as playful. Here, I hope all of the buddies all the best and good luck in their life.
Now, back to UNITEN, I've known a lot of new friends too. Though we just have know each other for few months, it seems like our friendship works out very very good. We'd cook together, visited each others' hometown together and etc. Uniten's friends are new friends, for me, a new chance to explore more experience from people who a from a different place I was. I'm pretty sure we'll stay together from now till the final year of my university life. I also hope that we'll get along better and better no matter in our studies, our lives or our relationship. =)
salam Pn.Zue
friendship.. what make it so special? why do we make friends and who are we going to choose? the answer lies in our heart. to begin with, friends are important to us as they act as our guidance in everyday life besides our parents. parents may be protective however friends are supportive.if anything happen, a true friend will always a person you can count on. as in Bruno Mars song entitled Count on me, If you ever find yourself lost in the dark and you can't see
I'll be the light to guide you. that is how a true friend work.but most of the time we could not find the real or true friend that suit us right? sigh~ it is painful.. my friend used to say that, to find a girlfriend, choose someone that opposed u in many way but to find a true friend, choose someone who always walk besides u not in front or at the back.. at the very least, that is how i think about friendship..
:)
later then..
What is a friend? A friend is someone who shares his/her feelings with you, cares and helps you when you are in trouble or hurt. It’s easy to make a new friend, but it’s difficult to find a true friend. True friends are those who you can rely on and stays with you in the good times and bad times. A true friendship can last long.
This post makes me think of my friends in the secondary school life. We once played, laughed and studied together. Their warmth made me feel warm and secured when staying with them. However, everything changes when we graduated from the secondary school. Everyone is busy on their own studies now. Although we still have chance to meet each other, but our friendships are not as before already. Therefore, we should appreciate our friends as our friends are the best present from the God.
I love my friends.
Talking about friendship, I start to miss some of my secondary school friends which we didnt met each other for almost 6 months. In my opinion, besides family , friends do play a very important role in each of everyone of our life. Finding a friend its easy, but a true friend is tough. What i mean by true friend is someone that you can be trusted,honest with you,share happiness or sadness,and always there to help you. To have real friends, we first must be the real friend.
Love this article and poem. I love to see when friends are around to help each others and cheer each others up when one are in trouble. In fact, I should say that I am jealous of all this nice, perfect and real friendships. Throughout my life, I have been meeting friends that are making use of me, betraying me and so on. By experience, I have learn that, friends can be nice to you now, but the next day, he or she might just do something bad to you for his or her own good. No one in this world is trust-able besides yourself, this is what I have learn throughout my life. And I hate it very much. But I am kinda happy that no one have ever treat me bad in uniten. Hope this shall be forever. =)
hello Pn zue
life is so short that we need someone to share our thoughts and also our feelings.Definitely a thought would arise in our mind asking who it could be whom we can trust so closely.Answer might be who someone closes to you but who? Parents,brother, sister...apparently it comes to anyone's mind a 'true friend'.you are no nearer to true friendship than if you choose them for commercial reason.besides who are you that you should be setting a price upon your friendship.
we often make friends for the weakest reason.proximity, for example, or shared experience, laziness or need but what will make them endure as friends? Their similarity to us?Their utter different from us.i think that what happens between friends.you rub too closely sometimes and the friction ignites hidden grievances..thats all from me..thank you..
Greetings Pn. Zue,
Friendship depends on the eyes of the beholder. There are many kinds of friendship that exist and existed in the world. Firstly, friendship between siblings, master and slave friendship and lastly the basic friend-friend friendship.
The title "friend", is a very common title to categorize people who you know or met. Hence, other titles like good, best and best friend forever (bff) are created to establish a friendship pyramid in our lives. People who've made an impact in your life are classified into good friends. Those who've gone through thick and thin with you all the way, will be classified into either Best friend or BFF category. Correct me if I'm wrong but, the word "bff" are normally used among females and females only. I dont really see any guy going around saying, hey this guy is my bff. It sounds kinda, well, un-cool and also not masculine.
Indeed friendship is bliss. My life would just be sad without my 2 best friends whom I've met since kinder garden and primary. Now the 3 of us are best friends, tho 2 of them are studying in the same college, I'm in another but, distance is no worthy opponent which will penetrate through our impenetrable wall of friendship :)
Thanks You,
Andy Low ( Andrew Low )
Yeah Lynn...people are nice in our class, too...indeed, they form the base to Andrew's'friendship pyramid'.
When i look at this post. I can only think of one thing.
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton
Friends can mean two things. Real Joy and real pain. I never really understood what my parents meant when they said "choose your friends wisely". 10 Years after their advice. I look at my fingers and started counting, weird. I actually have enough fingers to count the amount of "true" friends that i have. It's sad but that's the reality of life. But these few friends bring unspeakable joy and happiness when you're with them.
They say that best friends don't mind each other, that each other's house are like their own. I on the other hand, think that best friends respect their friends and still have the courtesy to ask for permission before they do something. You don't see your sister devouring your chocolate without asking you do you?
Finally, life is an ongoing tide. They say "Time and Tide waits for no man" and i couldn't agree more. In a matter of time friends u love and cherish will slowly fade away brought by the boundaries and obstacles of work and family. Your clashing schedules would bring about the difficulty of ever having the same amount of time to spend with each other as before. And that's when REAL PAIN comes in. If you really love somebody, you'll never wanna leave that person for even a minute of your life. Friends and partners alike.
But life goes on, and you'll meet new people along the away, new treasures and gems for each and everyone to cherish. And by the end of your life, Hey. You might need an extra few hands to count your True friends =D.
Ladies and gentleman,
Who is a friend and what are the qualities a friend should possess?
Assalamualaikum Pn Zue.In my opinion,the definition of a friend and friendship varies with each
individual.For me,a good friend is someone who understands me,accepts me for what I am and at
the same time inspires me to do the best.True friendship is demanding.It requires
loyalty,trust,empathy,support and understanding.However, one should never expect such virtues in
a friend unless he is willing to offer these virtues in return.In other words,one must be a friend to
have a friend.It must be possible to find all the virtues in a single friend.
That is why few stay a while longer and fewer still leave footprints in our hearts and in
the sands of time.Friends come into our lives and go.So,yes,friendship that has stood the test of time
should be most revered and happy is the man who is blessed with such a friend. Thank You.
Hi Pn Zue,
After I finish reading the article on top,first thing that came into my mind was a song named "Shining Friends".It is a nice song.It was introduced by my secondary school English teacher.To me,friends are my second family.No one can survive alone.When I am away from my family,friends are the people I can relay on.During the final year of my primary school days,my classmates weren't just classmates.They were more than that.They were my family.We adored the same chinese band called "ENERGY".There was once when my friend brought a radio and we sang and danced together.It was trilling and memorable.Those were the good days.During our graduation,we performed a sketch based on the story of "Snow White and The Seven Dwarfs".We would spend time together through means of practice.That was when we got to know each other very well.Friends are the people who stand with us through thick and thin,through joy and sorrow and will always be by your side no matter what obstacle you may come to face.
Personally I feel that the relationship between family members come first, follow by friendship. I feel that friendship is so important in my life. They lighted up the road when i was off the road, they hold my hand tight when i was blind. most importantly, they are my soul inside my life. To all of them, i'm happy to be with YOU.
hye madam
So true madam zue, friendship is bliss, and indeed its a bless. Seriously, who on this planet earth doesnt have a friend. God creates a mother nature sense to seek friends in everyone of us. It reminds me when i was young, i was afraid to make new friends when my family moved to another place since my dad is a government staff until now, always being transfered from one unit to another. Really it was the hardest part afterall.
After sometime, its great adventure because we can make new friends, share new experience and i believe friendship will never stop until our very last breath. And of course i do have my bestfriend. But sadly, he moved to europe about 4 years ago permanently because of the family. But i still keep in touch with him because friendship never ends. "A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
I like the poem very much. Well, it’s easy to make a new friend, but it’s difficult to find a true friend. A friend is someone who cares and helps you when you are in trouble or hurt. True friends are those who you can really rely on and stays with you, no matter how is your appearance and how rich you are. A true friendship can last long.
The post makes me think of my friends in the secondary school life. We once played, laughed and studied together. Their warmth made me feel warm and secured when staying with them. However, everything changes when we graduated from the secondary school. Everyone is busy on their own studies now. Although we still have chance to meet each other, but our friendships are not as before already. Therefore, we should appreciate our friends as our friends are the best present from the God. Friends make our lives meaningful.
I love my friends.
Hi pn.Zue,erm..'Friendship is bliss'.I,m totally agree with this statement.Friendship absolutely can give us happiness and without it,our life will be dull and boring.From your post,i can see that your late husband got a lot of loyal friends.Actually,that is what everyone need.A loyal friends.Why did i say that?well,everybody can have large network of friends from all over the world but at the end of the day,who is the one that will stay and help us whenever we got into trouble?It's our loyal friends of course.I,m vividly remembered,since i was in kindergarden,my mom always tolds me to be careful in choosing friends because is one of the factor that determine our success in life.If we be friend with a bad friends,they will drag us to failure but if being accompanied by a right friend,they will lead us to a bright future.But incase we got stuck with some bad friends,instead of running away,why don't we try to change their lifestyle to achieve success together.Afterall,that is what friendship is all about right?
till then,thank you
hey , where's my post??*sigh* let's do this over again...let's hope this post would be successful.I got my finger's crossed.
Friends...friends...what would the world be when there is no such thing called friends??
Good evening puan zue ,
After reading the article that you have posted , I felt that each human needs a companion.Even for anti-socials , I'm very sure he/she will feel lonely sometimes although he/she stays away from people.Furthermore , two is better then one right?hence you need friends to help you when you are in some sort of a problem.Friends are really important in ones life.
Another thing about friends is that they provide motivation and inspiration when you need it.For example , like what Ikmal has said..his friends cheer him on when he was in the 5km race.Though he went off the track his friends still cheered him on.That's the uniqueness of friendship.Nobody else but your friends is going to bring you up when you fall.It's not like some stranger that come to you is going to help you though there is such thing called a Good Samaritan but that's not my point.My point is that whenever you are in a cruel world like this you need friends as the saying goes "a friend in need is a friend in deed"
Lastly , I would like to state that friendship is very important.Nowadays people think that money makes the world go round , but if that's the case what is your reason to live here on earth?Is it just about making money?Hence , I proudly say that Friends are actually much more important than money and everything else that matters.
Thank you
Hi Pn.Zue meet u again...
I'm Eng yang
I'm agree and like your post.It look like very funny and meaningful for me.Because friendship is really important in our life.
What is "friend"?It's the people who we know he/she that is my friend.It's true???In my mind,"friend" just a nouns to identify that you are know him/her."Friend" also can say like a person that you are know he/she would like to help you and trust you.
Why we ned a friend??Beside from our own parents,friend is only the person will help us to solve the problem that we face.But we need the time to understanding of their character that we never know before we learn each other.For our whole life,friend also a person that we are together to face the challenge on the future eccept our lover and family.
But "friend" is really funny thing,because it can be said to be temporary.The reason for my opinion is we always change the friend when we move to another state.Like we have many friend in primary school,but they not 100% can follow you to secondary school.At that time we need to learn a new friend to prevent us not too lonely and helpless.
Fortunately,i still can survive until i come to study in Uniten...^^Because i come alone to Uniten and learn a lot of new friends.
Haha.."friend" like a medicine,because they always treat us that is come around to help us when we meet a problem."friendship is bliss"...it really always happening in our surrounding....but it just according to our mood and feel.
that's why i always treasure the life with my friend.
In short,"friend" is the source of the spirit to us.Without friend in our life,that will cause our life have a corner missing.Because we not a VIP,but friend,family and the lover are our VIP in our life.So we need to treasure them and don't regret when need to separate...
that's all for now...thnks...
Hi there again Puan Zue,
I would just like to say that I was really touched by this article as you showed me the true essence or may I say the true meaning of friendship and how important is it in this ever growing society.I think that everyone in this world has a friend whether they’re good or bad.This is why people always say that if you’re down and troubled and you need a helping hand,a friend will always be there for you no matter what the conditions are.Just like the old saying “ A friend in need is a friend indeed”.
There are no words in existence that I can use to to express the true meaning of friendship but there is one thing I know,friendship is something money can’t buy instead you have to earn it and the only way to do it is to mingle around with people and never be shy to make new friend’s and expand you horizon.
Thank you again Puan Zue for your time,
Your’s Sincerely,
Pavendhran
Assalamualaikum Pn Zue....
As the human being we can’t deny that friendship is the most valuable, important relationship in our life which will never end. This is because friends are everywhere around us no matter how far we are. Friendship will forever exist in twist and turns of life. Whenever we meet a new person, we make friends by knowing each other. The more friends we make, the more cheerful and colorful life we have. Thus, it makes our life meaningful and memorable.
As we know, human are weak creatures that do not have strength to face all the problems and challenges throughout life. We need helps and support from others and sometimes we do need people to lead us to move forward. Again, friends play the main role in guiding us other than family member.
In hostel, friends are no longer our friend. They tend to become a part of our family. This is because our parents and siblings are far apart from us. The only person that are close to us are friends who always there by our side. Here, we shall share all the sweet and bitter memory together.
“A friend in need is a friend indeed” means a true friend is one who helps you when you are in need. A friend that brings good influences, always there for you whenever you are in problems, a good listener and helper, share joy and happiness moment together and understanding is a true friend. However, not all friends are true friend and a true friend is hard to find. In spite of this, friends sometimes might lead us towards negative behavior. Therefore, we should choose friends wisely.
In conclusion, friendship needs to be cherish and polish because it is important to each individual's life.
Thank you. =]
Greetings and good morning,
A friend is described as someone who share an interpersonal relationship with you. There are many types of friend. There are 'acquaintance' , 'best or close friends' , 'friends with benefits' among others. Since friends relate to us at a personal level, they affect our lives, especially our health lives in numerous ways.
Firstly, friends may encourage their friends towards a healthier lifestyle. Someone in a group of his friends wouldn't want to feel left out. Hence, if his friends lead healthy lifestyles, he would feel encouraged to follow suit. Besides that, his friends may also motivate him by inviting him to healthy outings such as morning jogs, visiting gymnasiums or even be his playmates in a game of sports.
Secondly, friends provide us with support and help. As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed".We can ask our friends for help if we ever are in a pinch. Moreover, when we are in trouble they, in addition to support from families, help us to overcome it. Good friends enhance our coping skills in dealing with illness and other health problems.
We have seen how our friends can affect our lives, either by directly helping us or just by being a pillar of motivation. So, in conclusion, we should make as many friends as possible and also cherish the friends we already have. Indeed, people cannot buy friendships.
Good day!
Friendship indeed is a very powerful magic.It brings strangers together and make them talk like they had know each other for centuries.I remembered the first day of my form4,facing 49 strangers really did made me felt so lonely and I tend to isolate myself.However,the 'funny face' took the initiative to approach me.Really really grateful that he made the first move!!!It had been 4 years and from a pair we formed a small circle,which i feel that is stronger than friendship i have.Arguments and conflicts are inevitable yet we're willing to forgive each other,no matter how hard it is.After so many things we had gone through,we can even read messages through gestures.Haha.Isn't it amazing?Learn to put yourself in other people shoe instead of always wallow in self-pity,because i believe,what goes around comes around,when you make the first move to care about people,they'll do the same thing for you.=).
dear pn.zue
Friendship.the word that kills loneliness.Just imagine our life without friends, we can't hang out, have fun and share our innermost thoughts, deep dark secrets, lofty and noble goals, or our hopes, joys, and fears.Our life will be dark and dull,lonely and almost meaningless.
I was very touched what you wrote about your late husband's friends.they reminded me of my best friends.they came even when i was going through hard times.they help and support me but never felt shame or count me as a burden for them.One said,a real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.
Till then,bye
p/s:the poem was beautiful^_^
Hi Pn Zue,its me Chiam..in my opinion friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.
Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.
Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.
Here i would like to share a poem about friendship
A friend is like a flower,
a rose to be exact,
Or maybe like a brand new gate
that never comes unlatched.
A friend is like an owl,
both beautiful and wise.
Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost,
whose spirit never dies.
A friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend. Thank you
Hye madam...
I'm strongly agree that friendship is bliss and friendship also is a need in our life. But many people think friend is just a friend. If one of your friends piss you off, you will try to stay away from him or her. But now try to look from different point of view. For instance, when we grow up and enter the university life, it will turn out different way. At that time, our lecturers are our mom and our friends are our siblings. If i ask you, who will be the first person you will tell or share all your problems? Your mom or your siblings? Of course your siblings... If you tell your mom, you may be scolded. This is because some of your problems come from your own mistakes. Therefore, it is safer to tell your friends first. I'm not giving an idea on how not to be scolded, but actually I'm trying to tell you all how important is the friendship. But don't forget to think wisely before you make friends as it is the most important thing to do. This is because friend is one of the major factor that lead to our success in life.
Friendship means relationship between one people with another while friends means people who always care about us,love us and share their stories and moments with us.Hi P Zue...It's me again..Fatin.'Friendship is Bliss'.It a nice topic.It can be denied that some of us don't have friends.Even for a lonely or quiet person,they must have a friend who is very close to him/her.For me,friends can make me laugh,cry,happy,sad,angry,annoyed but it life.Witout them,I couldn't live in this 'Uni's life'...I think I can't survive without them.This because they are the one who we can share our problems,sweet moments and everythings because we are about the same age.
Last not least, forgiveness attitude also important to get true friendship. real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offence.
hello madam..
i am tottaly agree with your opinion that friendship is bliss
somehow i feel very sad due to some person that taking advantages to their good friends
when thier friends in a problem, they will runaway and said to him that it is his own business, what will they get if they help him
what makes i am very sad are they making fun of their friends who is in trouble n in a big problem
nowaday it is hard to find a truly friends that will help us whether we are in trouble or not
Qamarul here from section 17
Friends a like an extension of a family.Friends cheer you up when you're you feel down,they'll be with you no matter what situation you are in,good or bad.Friends are sometimes called the spices of life, because with out them life would be dull because no man is an island...with friends you your life would be more enjoyable.Honestly, when i was at school, the main reason i would wake up early to go to school is because of friends.But be careful in choosing your friends because some of them will use you when they see an opportunity that would benefit them, then when you are no longer useful, they'll just forget you.Friendship is the most important asset one can have
That's all from me...till later
Qamarul here signing off
When you heard about friendship what things that cross your mind?
Friend is like a ship, he or she won’t leave you away when troubles come.
In our life, we will meet many kind of friend that have difference personality and also difference definition about friendship in their dictionary.
The question is how to define a friend?
Be honest, I also don’t know how to define it.
But, at least when you have trouble they won’t run away from you.
This world is not perfect just as friendship.
Anything can change in 24 hours.
The important thing is learn from experiences.
When a friend betrays or cheats you, no need to be sad and angry.
These are all the things that we will face soon.
It is just a part of our life.
What I want to say is, although some friends have cheated you, but not all friends are like that. We have to believe that there are some good friends waiting for us to meet them in the future.
Atikah.
Someone is standing by our side no matter when we are in great or bad situation. Come hell or water, he/she still by our side. Someone who will never let us fall, never let us gone through thick and thin in this life alone, and always there when we need him/her. Someone who never ask for any repayment for whatever they have did. They make a great friendship. Some people do not make a great relationship but they do make a great great friendship and it is better.
As i've gone to a boarding school before, i can say that friend came after family. Make a great friendship and you will be happy with your life.
good evening madam,
I read ur post and i think its a very nice post.Nicely written bout what frens realy are.If we dont have frens we wouldnt have company to do things.Choosing the right frens are also very important.We wouldnt want to mix with the wrong frens.For example frens who do bad things such as the most common 1 which is backstabbing others.Based on my "wonderful" experince during my high school days i had encountered this bad experience.Suprisingly one of my best fren backstabed me.Seriously it was one of my "splendid" experince i ever had.
In conclusion,
Choosing the right frens are very vital.
Assalamualaikum.... Pn.Zu
Right after i read this article, there are faces pop-up in my mind..
then i smiled...that's what we call friend..who had carved memories and fun things perhaps...
when we talk about friend..we suddenly think of somebody who are close to us..without friend you will feel that life is empty and dull.."its nonsense to live on the earth"..."i would rather die or something"..
so,better to have friend in our life.."all people can be our friend,but not all of our friend is a good friend".friends will always come with 'peer pressure'.a good friend will give the positive pressure a.k.a healthy competition,while the bad friends will come along with bad influence..'a friend indeed is a friend in need'..careful when picking a good friend..good friend will ensure long lasting friendship..till death..
...friendship will never last...
-Syazwan-
everybody need friends. i myself need someone called friend who i can talk to. we share our happiness together. but nowadays it's hard to find true friends. we may have a lot of friends but how many of them are our true friends? true friends will always be there for us even in our darkest times. they will help us whenever we need them. friendship is precious. so, appreciate our friends and be nice to them.because they make our life cheerful.
It is important to have a friends no matter where we are. Either in primary school, secondary school or even in universities. I am glad and lucky to say, i have many friends in Uniten. They are such a nice person and always the one who tolerates with me. We always share our ideas and also help each others whenever we met difficulties or problem in somewhere.
Frank to say that actually i have a very bad temper, i can get mad and angry easily. Luckily i had many friends who very understanding and always tolerates with me.It is always 'two better than one', rather than alone it is better to have someone to accompany, so that we wont felt lonely.
Friends is very important as they care and understand us.Lastly i would like to say 'Friendship Forever!!' to all my beloved friends.
'A friend in need is a friend indeed'. When we live at home,we depend on parents,when we live outside,we depend on friends to be our pillars of support. For me,friendship is something that hold a place in my heart other than family-bond. Friends always lend you a hand when you are in trouble. Friends teach you a lot of things and share the sweetest memories during those adventures you guys went through together. Below I quote a song about friendship from Mariah Carey, Anytime You Need A Friend
[Chorus]
Anytime you need a friend
I will be here
You'll never be alone again
So don't you fear
Even if you're miles away
I'm by your side
So don't you ever be lonely
Love will make it alright
MARIAH CAREY - Anytime You Need A Friend
Thank You,
Loh Wei Yi
sometimes, i question myself.
friendship? do i have that luxury?
and the answer is yes.
as i grow up, i've made different friends at different stage. we had fun, shared our sadness and those are very memorable experience.
as for me, friendship, is an inevitable MUST in our life. a deep friendship is hard to grasp but it has it's value of itself.
"at home we depend on parents, outside our home we depend of friends"
no doubt, i'm strongly agree with that. therefore, having a real and true friendship, indefinitely is a bliss in our life.
Well, this is a late reply isn't it?
I'm going to reply anyways.
Friends, none of us can live without them. They come in all ages and genders. They come from anywhere. They make you smile, they make you cry. There are two types of friends. The good ones, and the not-so-good ones. Although friends can impact you positively, they can also instill negative seeds in the very core of the soul. They can influence you to indulge in drugs and drag you into dangerous social networks.
First and foremost, drugs. Well, not all drugs are bad. Caffeine for example, it has been the most widely used drug in the world. Although, these kinds of drugs are not the ones I'm going to talk about. The ones I'm talking about are the likes of Cannabis, speed, crystal meth and tons more. The first stage, introduction to tobacco. Be it cigarettes or hookah. You would most likely overlook the effects of the substance at first, and after a while, higher dosages would be required for you to feel the "kick" so to speak. That's when it would hit you. You would be so into it, it begins to get harder and harder to stop. Definitely, we all have the urge to experience the unknown. Therefore, even a slight push from your friends would get you into drugs. Tobacco, marijuana, speed, ecstasy, the lists goes on and on, and in stages. When you're done with one, you'll crave for more. In the end, you will be the one that destroys yourself. Through drugs, you will create social networks to fill your needs faster.
The social network. Drugs can only be supplied by those who defy the laws. Mind you, they don't only break laws, they break jaws. This is where it gets dangerous. To fulfill your needs, you will need to satisfy both ends of the deal. And in this sense, money starts to become a problem. When this becomes a problem, you will begin to do dangerous things such as stealing, extortion, prostitution and the worst of all, killing. The friends that you thought would help you through have got you "hook, line and sinker." In your time of need, they disappear, leaving you to fend for yourself.
We have seen that friends can be "two-faced", they might look good-natured, but they are actually rotten through and through.
Conclusively, we should be careful of how we choose our friends. Don't judge a book by its cover, read it thoroughly. If in doubt, seek counsel from those who care.
Choose wisely. Your life depends on it.
I really like this article..its about friendship..As for me,it is part of my life..Without friends,I dont know what would happen to me..In my investigation,there are two kinds of friends,that is a good and bad friends..The most important in life is choosing friends..Because I had experienced through the bad friends..Its started since I in primary school..I tought them maybe friends which can maked me happily forever but its only for a while..I had learnt many bad things from their..Because of that,I didnt concentrated to my study and resulting a bad academic regulations..Fortunately,I found a right track before spm..So,I want to remind all of my friends,be a clever in choosing friends because if you choose wrong person,you wil regret at some time..Thank you
salam and greets to all.
let me ask u a question as a starter,do you have friends?for sure everybody i here have friends.let me ask again.do u know what is friendship?no body couldnt figure out that because friends is very general words.4 me friendship is an in-depth relationship, comfortable and relaxed.4 some people it take time to make friendship,but its okay because it is the time for us to know each other.Friendship also requires meeting the needs of both friends.that why it takes time 4 certain people.now im going to my point,friendship is a bliss.as we already know,life becomes meaningless,superduper bored without friends,let me share with u thereason why friendship is a bless.
frindship is a bless because by having friend our life will not going to be boring.think,what happens if we live alone?bored right?nobody to chitchat,to play with,living alone,like living in hell right?so there is what friends 4.making ur life much more fun.friend is like a food,there is no satisfaction when we can only drink to live,air to breath.friend is also the one who listen to you the most,and summore we can rely on them when we had a hard time.it is a nature that we always need to be friend to others.
as conclusion,friend is very important in our life.it is very important because friend is the place where refer the most compared to our own family.so dont be shy and try out more to seek 4 a friend and u know what? ur life will be much more happier.
talking about frienship i had a lot of friends...but my best friend is ma sister. there's 2 years different between me n my sister. she is older. we share a lot of things more than i share to my school friends. nw she is in indonesia but still if i'm sad or happy i'll call her...she is the only friend i trust with my life. if there's a problem she always b my side to help me out..luv u sis..miz u...
Friendship is such a beautiful thing.To me, friends compliment each human being on this earth. Of course you don't want to live this life without any friends around.Just imagine playing football all alone.You'll be the goal keeper,you'll be the striker and at the same time u have to be the defender.Hurm,must be pathetic huh? haha.Friends are the one to be our shoulder to cry on, besides our family.If they are not important and meaningless, of course it wouldn't affect us as much everytime we have a fight with our friends right? Lastly, in order to build a good friendship, sincerity and respect towards each other is obviously very important.Without it the friendship will easily "sink".
Friendship is an in-depth, relaxed relationship!
It is an in-depth relationship combining trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy. These are certainly aspects of life that all of us crave. Being able to trust and relax with your friend is a big part of friendship. Remember when you were young and went with a friend to her grandma's for the week-end. It was fun but when you got home, home was wonderful. Your feeling was "I'm home. I can relax now." That's what a friendship should be. You go out into the world and do your best. You have your ups and downs, your problems and triumphs, your fun and tribulations. You charm and you perform. Then you come "home" to a friend. You can relax, put up your feet; you are relieved. If you still have to be charming and/or performing, it's not a relief. Friendship is a comfy situation like home. You get home, kick off your shoes, relax and sigh, "Ahh, home." But no one can form a friendship until he/she realizes that the basis of being friends is meeting the needs of the other person. One must be a friend to have one. Never forget that friends relate. Relating is the basis of friendship.
Yaseen /15
A world without a friend, what would it be?
the would will be like a world without water, something you need. Friends are like glass, once broken they are hard to fix. Keep your friends, as you would keep your water
Friendship is one of the most significant factors in this life. Without friends we are considered as nothing .There is an important proverb which says friend in need as friend in deeded .Moreover the problems that we face in our life can not be solved without helping from our friend.AS the report of the UNITED NATIONS shows that the number of the patients who suffer from Psychological problems is
increasing and that is actually due to many reasons,one them is that those people have few or no friends.to eliminate these problem we have to have as many friends as possible.
How do you describe friendship? It’s not easy, is it? Friends are special people. They don’t have to be the same, and a few similarities or a little bit of common interest are good enough to make a couple of fast friends. They are not worried about being judged. They feel good when they meet. They argue, they fight, but in the end, they are there for each other when it counts.
A friend walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't sleep. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is forever friendship.
When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times.If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tell you the everything is going to be okay. And if your find such a friend, you feel happy and complete, because you need no worry.
It sounds a lot like family, and it’s justifiably so – don’t you often have the feeling of family when you are amongst your good friends? On the other hand, it’s sad but true: in many cases, you can’t even consider some of your family members your friends! That’s probably why some people talk to their friends about things that they would otherwise keep secret from their own families. And that’s definitely why a true friendship will last a lifetime.
You have a forever friend for life, and forever has no end.
People say, friends are hard to find, harder to leave and impossible to forget. As for me, sometimes, it's to early to say that we don't have a true friend because usually people don't value what's in the hands. Only once it has been gone then they will learn to appreciate. My say, true friends are easy to find, only when it starts with you being one. Talk about going through hardships and moments together, would it be something that you can do for someone? My say, being a true friend will then gain true friends to tag along your journey of life.
Therefor friendship is bliss. It completes your life and fills the empty space in our hearts.
I love this post. It make me thought about my old friends and also my friends here at UNITEN. Miss them so much. Why do we need friends or frienship? This because friendships are the gift from god to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world are blood related. But the only relationships which does not related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. The most important things in our life is friendship. Friendship make our life meaningful and wonderful. Without them, we will fell lonely. Besides, true friends will always stick with us when we happy or sad. That's why friendship is important to us.
True friends are never apart, maybe in distance but not in heart.
Nassr,
life without FRIEND just like a fish without water = die.
I believe that there is no definition for friendship; because it is an essence.
FRIEND is the one who listen to you, share the sadness and the happiness times with you, in touch with you.
Friend is the only one thing you may have forever.
I have made a lot of friendship you as well but; we always know in our deep heart there is only one person could win and take the honor of your friendship/brotherhood.
We have heard alot of stories and songs about the FRIEND, did we ask why???
As i said before "FRIEND" has no definition.
Now days they say: if you have something valuable that would be your closest friend.
Tq
friendship is a very valuable and we should appreciate to ensure good relations between us. even though his is not everything for us in life, but it is very valuable if we truly understand its meaning. friends can be group into two, which is good and bad friends. Good friends must always understand and always there when needed no matter the time of easy or difficult. someone who really consider us as friends will not hurt the feeling they like. if a friend does something wrong, as a friend he must advise and asks that it not be more severe. each good must have disadvantages, as well as a friendship that is ugliness. but it depends on the choices we make in choosing a friend is. there is a friend that we can be friends and go out with, but not as a friend who is always there for us to share during happy and sad. but this is not regarded as a bad friend. bad friends who are friends just for the sake of themselves and brought his friend into the wrong path. so we should be good at choosing with whom we want to be friends. and please do not take advantage of the benefits provided by our friends.
Thank you. =)
I do have friends,we seperated for 10 years I know he or she :) and we was being a very good friend when we was in year 2,after that everything is change,he or she must change the school and left me behind, from that day until 2010, I still remember what we did together,I do wrote the things that we did on my blog...I do though that I never meet he or she again, but I was wrong I enable to meet her at the facebook!!! Even after 10 years she still remember who am I and what we did....a true friends will always be there when the time is come...
It is a happy time to be rounded by our friends and live the happy moment with them ... but as we all know that one day we cant be together any more... every one has to go with his/her new path.
Even so, all the good moment that friends has spent it will be remain in our minds for ever and once we meet again it become like wowo the most happy moment ever in that day :)
Hopefully, every one of us has great and wonderful friends to be with them all the time.
Salam madam,i kinda like this post because this topic friendship is so close to our heart.
When i was in my secondary school,i used to have one bestfriend,we met up and get ourselves close when we were in form four.It was the best year ever for us. We shared our problems together and stick together through thick and thin.But yeah,that was years back then,now we are far apart from each other as she had moved to somewhere far from me.She was my last bestfriend i have ever had.I cherish every moment with her,and she will always be remembered by me.
Yes,i do have one male bestfriend now.And we understand each other so well :) For me,a friendship and a bestfriend is when someone understand you and accept you by who you are.A friendship should be build by trust,and helping each other when someone is stuck in the middle of massive problem.A bestfrind is the one who doesnt care if he or she cursing you with the bad words cause they knew it was just a joke.And yes,a bestfriend shouldnt leave you alone.
Friendship after all,for me,that one of the relationship that we should value from time to time. But remember,a bestfriend doesnt need to always be with you everytime,they should always in your heart,and your mind :)
friendship is truly the wonderful gift that god have given to us.
I, sometimes wonder.....that we cannot survive in this 'world' without a friend.
it's because the family cannot help you all the time. they can't help us because as we mature to adulthood. we gonna go build our life in the outside world, just like a big bird going to leave his nest& make a new family. But to achieve that, we will have to face the 'horrific battle' which is living by yourself.
you gonna feel the freedom & have the privilage of making your decision-making. BUT is your decision is correct???
that is where the people that you know/introduce to will be your friend. they gonna help you second guess/think again some of your decisionmaking. some friend will also help you enjoy the beauty of freedom.
the conclusion is, friend can be your helper/savior/brother/sister or your BEST friends.
I have read the poem and the words that I could describe it falls into numerous positive categories. The poem gives me the impression of beauty, safety and makes me reminiscence my past memories that are shared with my friend. But as they say love and hate are the flip sides of a card. True friends are hard to come by these days as the intentions of befriending are not as pure as old times. People are becoming more ruthless and forgotten simple moral values up to a level of fully using or utilising other people for ones good and selfish desires. There is no shame, self-values are deteriorating as if ourselves are the only prideful person in our life. Blissful friendship exists when these desires are kept minimum, as pure as it can be from worldly desires. Just saying! It is for us to think about it, to reflect it in ourselves. How many 'friends' do you have now? How about in the past? And how many will u have in a lifetime?
Friendships is a bound that never cut.It is most important in our life. Without friendship our life are meaningless.Every person need friends.Friendship contains love, faith and honesty, and because of that you need to spend time quite long time to know each other
we can share our moment of happiness or sadness with them. When we have problem we can share to them and asked their advises.
We also need to supportive and be there when friends need us.Everyone need someone.A true friend dont judge you,they see you as you and nothing more. :)
Assalamualaikum Pn Zue.
There's a word that say, 'Friends actually your siblings from another parents'
Beside my parents, most of my time are occupied mingling around with friends. Some are there for us in our good-times and some even in our most vunerable time, the time when we have nothing to cling on besides the person whom we trust the most. They are here, to be the shoulder to cry on, the ear to listen to our problem.
The 'not-so-good-friends' also there in our life. They are there in our life is not a vain at all. We have our plans but never to beats the God's plan. God has and always have a better plan for us. 'Not-so-good-friends' are there for us to always take lesson from them. To make our life in future is equipped with the knowledge to handle all sorts of people's attitude, whether we like it or not.
True friendship is always based on trust and honest. We know inside-out of our bestfriend, thus won't making any silly accusation, just because of other's people mouth.
"We don't lose friend, we just know who is worth to be with, in happy or sad." :)
who is the true friend and do we have friends at this time ?
True friend is the one who will be with you in good times and bad times and in joy and grief, and in the amplitude and narrow and in the richness and poverty.
True friend is the one who give advise if you are wrong and encourages and help you to do better.
True friend is the one who pray for you without asking him to do so.
Real friend is one who will be willing if you need help from him will serve you at no charge or benefit.
Finally, the friendship has become a huge benefit that help me while i am so far from my family and all my friends and build a beautiful environment that i live it now.
"Friendship is bliss"... I agree, and it's true because without friends, our life would be incomplete and dull as friendship is one of the most important aspect in our life. However, to achieve or to feel the bliss of friendship, we must be smart in choosing friends, not everyone can be our good friend. Some people that are so-called friends, just being our friends when we're happy, but not when we're sad or having problems, they won't care much about our problems. This kind of friends, there's a possibility that one day they would make us feel hurt or get betrayed by them. So, choose friends that can give us happiness, that are so supportive and care about us and willing to lend us a hand whenever we're in trouble. Personally, I think only good and loyal friends can let us feel the bliss of friendship. Appreciate your good friends because they are so valuable and quite difficult to find. Good friends will show us how blissful true friendship is and true friendship will last forever.
"A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have"
This post reminds me of my best friend, who is someone i actually can be myself around and someone who won't judge me for the silly things i may do or say :) Besides, friends can cheer me when i'm depressed or sad and with friends i can share everything, either joy or pain. That is why friendship is bliss because it is a special bond between friends that is hard to find, harder to leave and impossible to forget ♥
his post is awesome, all of us need to have friends but it's just a few friend can be a close friend.this post make me to remember of my best friend. i saw him when i was in highschool. we studied together,playing games and etc...friendship help us to growing and growing
Interesting topic, now that it came to friendship I have a story of my own to share with you!
I used to spend most of my life without any real friend. Why? Because I couldn't really connect with all types of people, I really needed someone to have at least a common interest in some aspects if not all, although I think majority of us think that way! Well, all I’m saying is that you can't have a deep friendship with just anybody, you need to know them first, know their opinions, interests and most importantly their ideologies, if you look around most of your best friends share a great common ground with you.
However, I’m not implying that you can’t be friendly with everyone, exact the opposite, actually you should try to be friendly with the other people, but acting friendly toward others and choosing a friend is not the same. As I promised earlier, let’s have a look at my failed friendship experience: When I first arrived in Malaysia, I didn’t know anyone in the university, but eventually I got to know some of them because they were my course mates, I tried to establish a friendship with many of them but since we had a different way of thinking no real friendship was forged, sometimes later I met one of my countryman, and we eventually became friend! And WHAT a friendship that was! The guy tried to take advantage of my lack of experience since I was 11 years younger than him and in some cases he succeeded, asking for money and not returning it, trash talks and talking behind my back were among his most notable attributes! Long story short, I thought enough is enough and ended my “friendship” with him, a year later university asked him to leave.
I hope you understand that I’m not saying that we shouldn’t have any friend, because I haven’t finished yet, less than 5 months after that, I met with a real friend, who is understanding and knows the value of friendship, as we all know, friendship goes both ways. Sometimes it might be difficult to find a real friend, but if you keep looking, you will find the result satisfying.
Friendship is bliss. Indeed it is, if it's based on the true value of friendship
friendship, the foundation of a good friendship is built on common interests, trust, honesty, and a genuine concern for each other’s .
Many of us take friendships for granted. But lasting relationships provide more than someone to lean on when the going gets tough. In addition to the emotional benefits.
I am really like this article bec this article consist of meaning in our life .Friendships is the most important thing after our family friends helps us to see many things in our life in different way. We can share a lot of our happiness and sadness with them .Also ,they can give us the ideas and advises when we have any problems but that is depends on the loyalty of friends .In my idea we must choose who will be honest with us ,I know that is very difficult now a days .When i was with my family i didn't feel friendship are important but when i stay away from them really i feel that i would like to add that friendship are the best relationship in the world if that built on the honest.
Finally Thank you friendship bec our life will be complete with you.
First when i came to malaysia i did not know any one . i stayed alone for one month. i missed my family and old days friends , life was boring. i was thinking to go back home and give up on studies, but then i got the chance to meet some friends.we got along and started to hangout and since then we became best friends. i'm very thankful to them because they are the reason that made me to continue what i came for, and this made me to appreciate friendship and know how friends are important in life.
and I'm ready to do anything for them, because they are the reason of what i am right now.
i was blessed with very less friends though each of them stayed sincere to our friendship and uphold the true qualities of a friend. I believe to be a good friends we first need to be a good friend to another, your poem reminds me of how much a friend's worth. there is a saying which goes "in the end even your brother may not follow you to the end of the road so search a friend instead of riches", i believe friendship is the indeed a bliss :)
Wazzappp !
"Friendship is Bliss", what an awesome post <3
A good friend will come and bail you out of jail..but, a true friend
will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn...that was fun!"
Lets create a friendship, We are all awesome around here, and awesome people should connected, find/add me up on Facebook : Rijal Rusli
friendship is most certainly a bliss! the most faithful and open relationship of all. we can share almost anything in this relationship whether good or bad, ups or lows, joys or tears. it is a tight bonding between friends that brings the world closer together. we need friends in our life. we cant live alone. friends can cheer us up when ever we feel down. friends can help us when ever we are in trouble. we can do so many fun and crazy stuffs with our friends. so to me friends are the most important ingredient in the recipe of life. thank you. cheers!
Your true friend is always there, not just for a day or two, but forever. Only the real friend will tell your face is dirty . A real friend convinces you faster than others just because he /she knows what is Suitable and good for you .!
When you look around and your world is crumbling or when you think no one loves you, your best friend is the only one who runs to you....So Now , do think you can live without a true friend ..?
friendship is a bliss?? well truly to say , sometimes there are the "BLISS MOMENTS" sometimes they aren't any. sometimes its a pain in the neck and sometimes a friend in need is a friend in deed .. so i wouldn't agreed with the topic because as far as i can recall. there is something special about friendship , in which when e quarrel with one of our good friend it doesn't tear us apart but keep us more in tack as we know what are the do's and don'ts .. -alvin sanjeev david-
hi madam , i like this article ..everybody need friend to share the success of life but when we want success should be choose a good friend and loving friend . because the friend help us to see the right way ,avoid us to making mistakes, and standing with us when the time is come, indeed when i wanted to marry. my best friends they did many thing to stand with me and supported me .. i want to say thank you my beloved .impossible to forget this moment all my life .
friend is like energy to continue my life..
Very interesting topic .
I would to say that the friend is mirror of you. What it would be you will be like him.
My mom always tell me that birds of a feather flock
For that we must be careful with choosing our friends becouse they reflect who are we ?
(friend in need is a friend indeed)
The second most important thing to have in life is a friend. First important being family. A true friend is the ones that are there for you when you need them the most. Friendship is such a simple concept nowadays which I think is the reason why people keep saying true friendship is hard to find. You can just go online.. myspace,facebook.. and "add **** as friend". as simple as that.
Nevertheless, friendship is truly a bliss and you cannot live without them.
In my opinion,
Friendship is harmony, friendship is bliss. Friendship is harmony. Mutual harmony removes all conflicts in opinion . Each individual has opinions of his own, but when friendship becomes the connecting link between two persons, all conflicts are removed and they become one. the Person can not live in this world with out friend because husband and wife is friends ,the parent with his children are friends,the sister and brother are friends .
I will be happy when I meet my friends who were with me in elementary school to remember what we were doing at that time and how we were together in the face of difficulties and how we have become today.we are now educate our children to make friends and communicate with their friends .
In the end, i finish my COMMENTS with this Friend Quotes and Sayings
1- (A best friend shares the good times and help you out by listening during the bad times.)
2- (Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty)
Thank you .
hye ma'am :)
friendship is bliss..for me yes,i agree with it..for me everything that you doing in this world was not complete without your family and your friends..we can share everything about our secret to our friends because not everything we can tell to our mom,dad, our sister or even our loves one right :)
Friends should be the ones listening to our secrets, not the ones that hurt your feelings without knowing. Friends should be the ones that keep all of our secrets, not those who spread it all around.and for me, a great friend is someone who makes your problems their problems just so you don't have to go through them alone..
sometimes we can lost our friends when we get more older..but its not the reason we can forget them when we met a new friend..
friendship is a bliss..without them our life is not complete at all :)
When you bring up this topic of friendship, there are two things that come to my mind which is happiness and sadness. Someone may ask what I am talking about but this simply means that a friend is the one that can make you very happy and at the same time hurt you most.
Many at times we as people we get this concept of friendship wrong, we tend to think that this relationship Is all about happiness we forget about sadness part of it. That is why when our friends betray us we feel like it’s the end of the world because we don’t create space for disappointments. Yes of course they are capable of hurting us most, because of all the people they know us much better we tell them everything about us even our future plans, that means they can even stop us from reaching our destiny. Also friends knows how to make us happy because they know what we like most they are always on our side, sometimes they even get closer as far as the family can go.
After all we need them because we are people at times we need comfort we want someone who will always be there during rough and smooth times, somebody we can share happiness and sadness with. In conclusion what I can say is that, choose your friends, keep them as close as possible, love them and cherish each moment you spend together, but always create space for disappointment.
Friendship; one of the precious gifts given by the God to us to appreciate. We should realize it gives a lot of experiences throughout the journey of a friendship. People will have many interpretation of friendship, as it is subjective to be discussed and we may find that not all people have the same way of dealing with the friendship.
There are lots of circumstances and challenges awaiting in a friendship; depending on us on how to deal with them. Perhaps we can have the joyful moment in friendship or sit in in a dark and gloomy world of it. Let's find a good way in decorating and coloring our journey of friendship.
Time changes, so do people. We cannot live alone in this world and friends are our gems to share our happiness and also problems. Yes, people do come and go in our life. It is the circle of life and we should accept it. So, be thankful and appreciate what's left of it and who knows; we could have a beautiful friendship with other people.
friends are valuable or precious things in life. friendship can last for so many years. it is a special relationship. it is all about trust and respect. it may easy to meet someone and hang out together but when things got tough you will know who is your true friends. true friends will be around you when you are not at your best. i have 2 friends or i call bros which always back me up when something happens. i really love them very very much haha gay much? :p but this is what we call friends. doing stupid things together, laugh together, even cry also together. okay, enough said, i love my friends and not to forget my lovely beautiful lecturer, puan zue. may god be merciful on our soul <3
Few years back, i watched a series of short stories by Makoto Shinkai entitled "5 Centimeters Per Second". The title describes the falling speed of a cherry blossom's petal and how it acts as a metaphor to the pace of a human life.
As the petals fall, they grew apart from each each other, despite having the same origin. So would people. So would friends.
It is good to appreciate old friends and the fond memories we have with them, but not too much that we neglect those presently close to us.
assalamualaikum madam zue..my name is hazwan..what is friend??friend is like moon..when is dark,the moon comes to enlighten the world..so,without friend,we dont have anything with live..the good friend always beside me when i have a problem..on of the success key is friend..u all must know about this..thank you madam.
Dinah Craik said in "A Life for a Life"; "...the blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely.
Yeah, that is the meaning and value of friendship, you can speak up your thoughts freely, you don't have to weigh thoughts nor measure words.
Friendship is a valuable and rare gift that you are unlikely to find it easily once you lost it.
friendship, indeed a special bond, a bond that fuels our daily life with energy, support and good times.
friendship, being a special bond, is built upon solid ground, trust and nothing but trust, which is not granted easily to any one.a friend could not be called "a friend" unless you can trust them, for trust, feeds the engine of friendship the enough power to keep it going, day after the other.
Assalamualaikum Pn Zue.
I like this article. Friendship is a must to us as human. We are created to live in a society and friend is the one who closest to us after our family. Genuine friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action, doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return, sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism. Take good care of your friendship because they are important. ^^
I like the poem. It brings back all the memories of all the friendships that I have made since I was a kid. Friendship will never end, will never lost but friendship will still there and happen to every stage of our life. When I was a kid, I have a friend to play together every evening, when I go to elementary school, I met another new friends. This process will always happen forever. So, never stop make friends and never forget our old friends. :)
AFIQ
Friendship is an invitation to Betrayal!.. or is it not?
I know most people here have been hurt before by close friends, or vice versa, and the person who gets hurt is always wondering in shock “why did this happen?”.. Well welcome to planet Earth.
I’m also quite sure none of us went through the real situations when friends start to look not as cool as when they were telling jokes about losers, just yesterday.
When the ground start to quake and the what once was solid ground start shattering around us and only a few reach their hands to rescue us.
But who am I to talk? I don’t claim to have went through hell and discovered what true friends are.
But from my day-to-day experience; I’m sure of one thing, when it comes to true friends, there aren’t as many as we believe we have.
Hello Puan Zue,
Friend?? One word that we all known but the meaning does everyone knows?
Accoding to wikipedia Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association are often thought of as spanning across the same continuum.
But for me friendship is a bonds that tied me and my friends. A bonds that connect us eventhough we come from different culture, different lifestyles and as extra. Like your said 'Friendship is bliss'. The bonds that are been created between us is actually a bliss. A bliss in our friendship.
Without this bonds how can a someone who did not know each other can be a friends? Many people has so many friends but have you ever ask them. How many friendship did you make??
To get this bliss in a friendship we need the bonds to connect us with our friends. Without this bonds the friendship is nothing. You get to know everyone but you doesn't have the bonds can you still connect with your friend?Get close to each other??No actually we know them for a while then the friendship just disspear like them because there's no bonds that tied us to stick together.
Sometimes friend can be your enemy but if you and your friend really have the bliss. You can accept your friend as who they're. Be tolerate. Be responsible to your own friendship. Be trust to each other. If you feel bad about your friend just tell them. Be honest and be frank. It's actually worth in your friendship.
Remember A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Thank you.
FRIENDS..what are they..they're someone who we can rely on..good times..bad times..
i would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to all of my friends who has been there for me all of this while..
Assalamualaikum =)
We need to learn to appreciate something while we still have it, not when we have lost it..human are species with amnesia, but that not the reason to be ungrateful for what we have right now.
So, from now on friends, lets start to appreciate our beloved, family or friends.Appreciate and show our gratitude to them while we still can, while their are still here....with us...
Greetings...
True friendship sounds like health and the value of it is seldom known until it is lost..
for me i think that friendship is like one mind in two bodies..
it's so nice when you know that no matter happens in your life no matter the situations that you might go through there's some one who you can lean on the same one who you can share happy moments with ..
hye puan zue,
when we're far from home and family we would like to have someone to share something right. And the best person to share is the person who is next to us who called friend. Even sometime friends doesn't really listen to what we said but it's kind a relieve thing after we share something to someone else. True friend are hard to find but once you found it never let that person walk away from your life..:D
Hello Madam, I like this post very much. Everybody must have a friend. As you know, for this era, there are not many real friends out there. By that, I want to emphasize that real friend are the people around you that color up and spice up your life, the people that you share your tear, fear, and happiness together and the one that'll go through adventures with you, and the one that shares the same interest and goes through thick and thin with you no matter what.That's what real friends are to me.
Salam mdm,
I really sad when read your post about friendship because this is my final years and I will miss all friends in UNITEN – batch June 2008. well, I don’t know how to express it how I will miss them. Someone said to me, friends are like siblings. Sometime we fight and sometime we happy together. I really appreciated them in my life. Without friends, I don’t know who else can be there for me if I feeling sad.
A good friend is the precious diamond that fall from the above sky. Its mean a lot and maybe that why God not make us as siblings because we can shared everything.. We not shame to telling the truth each other. We help each other grow on how to face the fact in our life.
Yeah, I don’t know what I need to write.. but thanks for sharing the beautiful poems and meanings about friendship.
Thank you
I'm glad to read these words of a harmonious about friendship.
they just refresh my mind with that awesome moments that I had and still having them with my best friend.
actually God has given us two gifts One is choice and another is chance Choice is to select a good friend
& Chance is to have a best one like you. So Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional,spiritual.
Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed.friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries.friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart.They are there when all is well,or disastrous , and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments.
We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly.so true friendship is really rare these days, so try to keep them well because they are PRICELESS.
i once heard a quote said "True good Friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to Forget!" it is true, until now i never can forget my friends from high school or even kindergarten, they always pop up in my dreams
Assalamualaikum...
friendship is bliss? yes..i do agree friendship is bliss...it's true we need friends in our life...without friends, well we are loneliness...but to find real true friends, hmm..that's really hard..my definition of true friends??
1. both willing help through the tough times.
2. we understand each other.
3. respect and honour each other.
4. have great fun together.
I lost contact my old best friends due to move new house...I hope I can meet him again..really2 hope...
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton -
but i do agree on
"Sometimes your closest friend is your greatest enemy."
- Jason Fong
:)
Hi Madam,
Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar. The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two like-minded persons of uniform status. It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.
There are many fair-weathered friends. They terminate their friendly tie as soon as their interests are fulfilled. It is very difficult to find a true friend today. It is better to establish true friendship with either a dog or an elephant. Both these beasts will remain faithful to their human friends. Today, friendship between two persons is short-lived. Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.
I would like to take this opportunity to thanks my friends. Friends, I just wanted to say thanks for always being there for me, even in the times when I really needed you guys/gals the most. Thanks for believing in me when I didn't even believe in myself. Thanks for helping me to want to achieve my outmost best.
For me, friendship is a gift from god. Friendship is not something we learn in school. In my opinion, if a person haven't learned the meaning of friendship, he/she really haven't learned anything. There is a meaningful quote I would like share with all of you, "friendship is a building contract you sign with laughter and break with tears". Friends make my normal days into special days. Turn my tears of sorrow into tears of laughter. My world is a brighter place due to the friendship and love that we share.
friendship is really the top in relation between the human. and everyone of us began from his house through the school till reach to the university, everybody of us are meeting many kind of friends and spend beautiful time with all of them.
friendship is important in our life to share the moment with friends, to have fun with them, to do every littel thing you like with them. and you can get and give some helps and improve your experince in our life.
in the fact, everybody wish to get good relationship with others which contain honest, loyalty and usefull things all between others
Friendship is extremely significant in all phases of our life. Friendship is the bridge between two human beings. It is the bridge between earth and Heaven. Friendship is the bridge between the known and the unknown. It can arise out of necessity and also out of generosity. If two human beings are in the desiring world, their friendship is founded upon necessity. But if one is in the desiring world and the other is in the aspiring world, then we have to know that the friendship of the aspirant is founded upon generosity, while the friendship of the desiring person is based upon necessity.
Friendship is harmony, friendship is peace, and friendship is bliss. Mutual harmony removes all dark conflicts. Each individual has opinions of his own, but when friendship becomes the connecting link between two persons, all conflicts is removed and they become one. Peace means confidence. I have confidence in you and you have confidence in me; our mutual confidence is peace. I shall not speak ill of you or try to ruin you; you will not speak ill of me or try to ruin me. On the contrary, I shall give you what I have: my love, my sympathy, my concern, my compassion, my total support of your cause, and you will do the same for me. Friendship is bliss. When friendship lasts, it offers bliss.
Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Oprah Winfrey
Friendship is a relationship that has no border. I remember when I was very little and made my first friend. Friendship is a connection between two or more people that literally sign contract to be there for each other no matter what. The poem below means a lot to me as how I treasure my friendship with which I’ve went through happiness and sadness.
Way out in the sea,
There’s a very big rock,
And on that rock are the words,
Forget me not!
Good friends are like diamonds,
They are very rare,
Normal friends are like leaves,
They are scattered everywhere.
I met you as a stranger,
I left you as a friend,
May our friendship last till the very end,
Forget me not.
Friendship, the only ship that never sink. Now and ever friends are always there. Long-term friends are the people with whom we can reminisce about memories that occurred during our lifetime. Changes in life such as health changes or retirement are less disruptive on longterm friendships. Short-term friendships help us to deal with changes that affect our daily roles, such as moving into a new area or starting a new job.
The best of friends,
Can change a frown,
Into a smile,
when you feel down.
The best of friends,
Will understand,
Your little trials,
And lend a hand.
The best of friends,
Will always share,
Your secret dreams,
Because they care.
The best of friends,
Worth more than gold,
Give all the love,
A heart can hold.
Friendship is something we cannot live without in this world. Everybody needs friendship because some friends or our best friends can be considered like the saying "brother from another mother". They will always be there for you. This kind of friends are normally your childhoodfriend, your schoolmate, your taman-mate(friend from your same taman) or collegemate. You can have as many friends as you want but friendship is something very rare and precious. Friendship is where both the friends can count on each other if something happens and have the "give and take" attitude among each other. When there is "give and take" in friendship and also there aren't any kind of domination and manipulation in the friendship, the friendship will be rather meaningful and will also last forever.
Reading this article reminds me of all the friendships thatI've had since childhood. There are pretty good moments and there have also been some sour friendships. Some friendship might look very real but in the end you will realize its just a fake friendship. This kind of sour friendships will ruin the whole friendship. Sooner or later, after ups and downs, you will know how to value the friendship whether it is true or fake. Nevertheless, true friendships are something very beautiful and bliss.
Each of us in this or that age think about the question: what is friendship? Most of the people whom we consider as our real friends, in fact, they just friends, that is, those whom we select from the surrounding society. We are aware of their concerns, their problems, we consider them close to us people who turn to them for help and are willingly helping them through difficult times. It would seem that a great relationship - but still no full revelation. We do not trust them with their innermost thoughts. When it comes to success, we are happy for them as for ourselves. They are not foreign to us people, among them there is a certain intimacy. But can we call it friendship?
Status of friendship can be assigned only to an honest and sincere relationship, when they have a mutual feeling of good to each other and willingness to unselfishly help at any time, plus soul intimacy.
We can talk about friendship forever, like the meaning of life or of love ... You can watch it, but it is given to very few people who can really feel it. I will say simply: "Friendship is needed!" Friendship gives a great opportunity to take another person as cooks, he is not trying to remake it for themselves, adapt to their own needs. Friendship - is the joy of communication based on trust and confidence in the relationship among you two ...
And I want to say that people make mistakes who argue that the friendship existed in the distant past and disappeared in the modern world. The world will always be filled with friends who will always give us pleasure. Appreciate your friends, it's most beautiful people! They will be with you throughout life!
Society is constantly changing, but still there are timeless values which are important for all people regardless of culture, religion, and generations. One of these values is friendship. But unfortunately, not everyone can confidently say that he has a friend. Friendship always comes with mutual respect and trust. It cannot exist alone. And this is a real success in life to get a friend.
I’m proud of having such friend. We are 13 years in good friendship! And hope it’ll never end. She always support and believe in me. Even when we haven’t seen each other for a long time our friendship does not become weaker. I’ll always be grateful to and pray for her.
Thank you, Puan Zue, for post reminding me my best friend!
Assalamualaikum Pn.Zue..What is a friend? For me, I'll describe it as a single soul in two bodies.Yes,I agree with this entry,friends is a bliss from Allah.When we consider the blessings of God,the gifts that add beauty and joy to our lives, that enable us to keep going through hard of boredom and even suffering and then friendship is very near to us.My moms always advice me to find a true friends and not a wrong friends because a wrong friends just leave you when you need them.Sometimes,we fight with our friends.But a true friends will never leave us even we are in the wrong hands.haha..salam
Assalamualaikum,
To all, from my point of view, having friend is easy, it starts with a hello, then we get to know each other, not necessarily till deep down, and there we have it, someone who we called friend. But, to have that one true friend that stays with us through our ups and down, it’s really hard to get, believe me.
Friends do plays an important role in life. They kept us company and be that something we would just missed so much if get lost. Sometimes, friends became a more preferable choice in letting out all problems and emotions rather than family members. They may provide us with a solution that sometimes we are not able to think of since different person are with different kind of perspective. Most of the time, family members share the same perspective that we’re having, hence, we couldn’t get our problem elsewhere, that’s why we seek the help of a friend. But, do bear in mind, share only to those who are able to lead us to the right path, not the other way round.
To wrap it up, it’s not easy to put our trust, to share our story, and to do everything together with someone who is not even related by blood to us. It needs some kind of will or should I say guts that drive us to open our heart to them. To have such friend, we need to be one of the kinds. Don’t expect to have such good, warm-hearted friend when we’re being mean and selfish to them. In friendship, we should give and take, be very tolerating and considerate. That is when we’ll taste the bliss in our friendship.
Hello everyone,
I read the article and I went through some of the comments, I raise my hat to all those who value the friendship and they talking it so pure. We are living in a world that every person needs to have a friend or two in his life since the day he/she porn, starting from his or her parents untill meeting a person that's not related to his family and that person becomes a real friend and in sometimes they are more close than brothers and sisters.
I will not share any experience about my friendships, because I'm pretty sure everyone here had his/her experience about a true friends around them. So I'm jus give a little peace of advice! Please never ever let your friends down specially the close ones. A friendship is something pure that shape ourselfs from inside and how we can share this world together. Because without a friendship we won't. E able to accomplish anything.
My big regards to all...
-student 2012
Friendship is bliss. I am really agreed with this phrase, but this phrase does not exist anymore in my life day by day. It is since, my friend have their own family and had to commit to their family. Yes, I know this is called life and I need to admit, face and go through what had happen in my life.
Before this I can feel happiness or I can say is bliss. It is because with them I could share my happiness and sadness and also give me a motivation. From there I feel comfort and motivated to study hard after I have study far from my home (hostel). There are a lot of memories that I could not erased for ever and ever which made me happy sometimes.
In my conclusion Friendship is bliss just for a moment and not forever .
- Maee-Student2012
Assalamualaikm Pn.Zue
I really agree with your post,"Happiness is everywhere, within our reach...and friendship is indeed the magical capsule that supersedes much of the rest".It really remind me all my friends. For me friends is someone who believes in you when you have ceased to believed in yourself.I am really proud to have all my good friends since the first time i have been in UNITEN.Sincerely atiqah
is085718
friendship is everything
without friend,there will be no happiness in this life
and of course,without excluding family
Assalammualaikum Pn. Zue and fellow friends that read this post. It is very cheering when reading this post.The Friendship is Bliss.
Friendship? In my opinion friendship is a value that can not be purchased anywhere because it is too valuable and can not be bought and sold. In addition, the friendship also can connect between the two men who were previously hostile for some reason.
In addition, when a bond of friendship between the two friendly people who will not be easily eradicated. This is because even though they had been separated or not met, but they are still able to recognize each other when they meet or encounter in a place.
~""Friendship is Bliss""~
Regards.
friends, there's a lot we can relate when we talk about this single word, friends can be the one who stay by your side and go through happiness and hardship with you, but they also can be the one who betray you. For me friends, can manipulate our behavior, because beside family, friends is the one close and always with us, so all the positive and negative influence that they have will surely effect us. that's why it is important to pick the right person to become friend with.
For me, at my stage of age, being a friend is not easy, it is something that we must carefully take care of. Because there will be a jealousy among friends from what other have achieve. But we must not think negative or badly about what he/she have achieve, we should congratulate and happy for whatever achievement that they got.
To conclude everything i just said, we must choose friends wisely, because to have a wonderful friendship is something that can fill your life with happiness.
A friend is someone who is there for you when he would rather be somewhere else.
I am fan of "John Lennon" and I think he has a nice and fit quote for this, as he says;Count your age with friends but not with years.
I have so many friends which I can say they always stick with me trough thick and thin no matter what.
The dictionary defines friendship as that which is formed between people who share some common ideas and goals. I do believe that Friends play the main role in a person’s life, they patronize when one is sad, they make tipsy when one is lonesome, and they listen when one has problems. Friendship is not just a "relationship", knowing someone, conversing with that person, or dealing with that person in business or school. True friendship is a feeling of love, sharing and caring without the expectation of anything in return. It is a feeling that someone understands and appreciates you as you are, without any lip service. Friendship makes life sweet and pleasant experience. Friendship is indeed, an asset in life. It can lead us to success or to doom. It all depends on how we choose our friends. Friendship is both good and necessary. Man cannot live all alone. He is a social being. He needs someone to share his joys .I myself have a lots of friends , some are good , some are bad. I am so glad to have the good ones, they have always tried their best to help me, and of course I am so ashamed to have the bad ones. This is life, good and bad things come together.
Hello Madam Zue,
Your post reminds me of my best friends! I do agree that friendship is bliss.
In my opinion, my best friends are not just best friends, i feel like they are part of my family, they are my sisters. I'm the only girl in my family, i don't have sister, i only have brothers. 1 of my best friends was actually my classmates during my kindergarten, how amazing it is when we found out and become best friend after 10 years! 3 of them i knew them for more than 10 years, and we are still friends after so long time.
I'm glad that i have 4 best friends in my life which others may only have 1 or 2 best friends. I appreciate very much and i will treasure this friendship for the rest of my life. As what we said among 5 of us, we are best friends forever. We called each other as 'besties' and even 'hot chick'!! =D Of course, that is just a joke for 'hot chick', we are not hot actually.
It is not easy to build a strong friendship as it can stay for a so long time. We have been gone through a lot of things. Example, the happy stuffs, sad stuffs, and the argument. I would like to say that argument is the critical stage for a friendship. It will affect a friendship very much, once anyone of us give up of the relationship, the friendship that we build for so long may just break like that. Luckily, anyone of us did not give up and try to recover the friendship. I think that's why we can stay for so long. This one may apply to a love relationship too.
In addition, friendship is helping you when you in a hard time, share your feeling, support you of doing something good and encourage you to confront the difficulties. That's what friendship supposed to be. It may not happen to everyone but at least these happened to me. 1 Chinese song named as ‘Half’, 1 sentence of the lyrics is 'only one person share the happiness, happiness will be only half’. It's true! If someone shares your happiness, the happiness will definitely like double up and you will feel happier. Same goes to sadness, if someone shares your sadness, the sadness of you will be only half. This is also why friendship is so important for us.
I love my best friends very much. They help me a lot and accompany me went through so many things. Most of time when i was secondary school, i spent time with them. Went to 1 of their house, play together, cook together and even overnight at there. My mother also allowed me of doing so, maybe is because no one at home to accompany me as i'm the youngest and my brothers all working at KL.
I miss those times a lot, same goes to them too. During holiday go back to my hometown, sure will ask them hang out together if they are at there. Every time i meet with them, i will feel very happy, and that's the time that let us gossip about our stories. Now all of us are far apart from each other, but it's doesn't matter. We still keep in touch, we maintain the friendship together and we love each other! ♥
Hiu Ru Yi
Friends?
For me, a friendship is not exactly like what we read in a book. To find a real friend, it takes more than just words. We easily get new friends, as easy as, we meet one time, say hello, ask his/her name, chitchat a bit, then usually we already considered his/her friend. But when it comes to REAL friend, then it must be proved in REALity, with actions.
Friendship also requires both person to be good to each other. If we want a best friend, then we first have to try our best to be a best friend and not just hoping our friend to be the best. Anything else that we hope in a friend, we also have to do the same. It is meaningless if we cant give what we want. That is friendship means to me.
Nurul Aisha bt Zainal
It is a faith to let me to know my friends, to connect me with them, to create uncountable and memorable days together. I’m thankful we can be friends throughout the big world. There is no distinguishing of friend, good friend and best friend. Only good friend and bad friend exist. Good friend is the one whom will share the happiness and sadness with each other, have mutual topics, always assist you when you are needed a help. The most importantly is, good friend will not persuade you to do a bad deed. Besides that, “TRUST” is an important element in friends. If there is no trust, no one could be your friend and you would be a forever-alone. So trust your friends and everyone will be your good friends.
My first friend in my life, is my brother. He played with me, he fought with me, he talked with me, he argued with me, he walked with me, he run with me, and etc... He led me and accompany until I found another friends in school. We are not so close as compared to the old times, but still, no one can replace his position. Our bond will never break. :) Friendship is bliss.
Friendship, the ship that never sinks even though “it” (the relationship), goes through rough terrifying sea. However in my opinion, it depends on the type of ship and also the captain and their destination. Best build ship, a wise captain with the determined destination goes in hand by hand just like a good friends who get to know each other without any hidden agenda, a good sense when choosing a friend and with the right aim in life will definitely create a heaven, enjoyment, delight or simply named the Friendship Bliss.
Before responding to this wonderful topic, I did took some moments of silent thinking back those days when I’m out of the house for the first time to start early childhood education. How did I make friends then? Well it started off with simple questions like “may I borrow your eraser?” or simply “what did you brought for recess today?” then the simple conversation turns into a simple kid friendship. It was not a long one, but a short one that last for two years.
Then the second stage of life, the primary school, and friendship was growing deeper since we had to spend nearly 8 hours in school compared to 2-3 hours in kindergarten. This was the time when we start to learn and to play together. I could still remember, my friends and I used to bring our own food from home, and sit together during lunch and share our food. At this period of time, we didn’t know to differentiate which and whose food cost the most. During this time too I preferred to stay with my own gender groups and should I was asked to sit with someone of different gender, my goodness it will be a greatest insult!!!
The teenage age, the phase when butterflies starts blinking in the night sky, when everything looks beautiful, it is totally a different a different atmosphere, friendship grooms itself to be more emotional, I’m saying this because at this age we feel comfortable to share our opinions, feelings to friends rather than our own parents. I believe too at this stage it is important to select the good friends because they will shape us. Just as the famous quote that says, “Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are…” Gender is no more an issue and we start to feel comfortable with them. Expressing ideas, the jokes, the laugh…
Next the college or university, the friendship zone is more specified because we will meet people who has the same interest, knowledge and ability as us. It will be more meaningful when we have to spend all the days at hostel. A friend becomes everything, starting from our parents to our pestering siblings. They are there to comfort us, they are there to train us, to motivate us or in other words they are just there for us.
In conclusion, friends are everywhere, from kindergarten to work place, from next door to overseas, and since social networks born, from known to unknown!! But the challenge lays in us, to choose the best for us that will dress us not destroy us that will build us not misuse us. In my view, when we are loyal, we find a loyal one, because often we reap the seed that we planted. To all my friends out there who accompanied me in my road of life at any phase of time, Kudos and God Bless!!
hello to all readers..
Friend is a need in everyone's life. i bet all of us in this world have their own friends. when you make a friend, definitely you will create or sign a contract under a FRIENDSHIP title between two people. Most of friendship occur when two of people (friend) have a mutual understanding and trust in each other. Friendship also can be too complex as some of friends might stay, some of them will leave for no reason and more. from my experience, i have faced this kind of situation since i was in kindergarten. Being love, being hurt, enjoyful moment, sad situation with friends, all of these i have gone through for about 16 years. For me, all of us need to have a friend, atleast 1. Why ? We may need them after our family. even when you take a step out from your house, definitely your friends will come first in your mind if you are facing any problem. We can make friends easily but to make a friendship to last longer, it may take times. Why ? people tend to changed due to some circumstances. Not every friend that we get to know, will stay forever till the end. Friendship need to gain by trust. Even friendship that last more than 15 years, can be broke easily if one of them misuse their trust to other friend. Conclusion is, having a friendship is a bliss. even oneday later you might be hurt, but there always a friend who gonna cheer you up even in a complicated situation. choose the right partner for your friend who can lead the you to the right path and peacfeful life.
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