Monday, April 26, 2010

Friendship is Bliss

It has been long that i have not recorded my thoughts and appreciation on this blogpage. Now, i'd like to share a simple poem on friendship for us to ponder. This inspiration came around when i saw the smile and happiness on my beloved husband's face upon receiving his friends, some whom he has not met for 22 years.i'd like to take this opportunity to thank all his school friends who visited him at the hospital, also friends whom we meet elsewhere. My special thanks to Cikgu Azanuddin for his humble presence together with the bubbly and vibrant crowd of ex-MRSMJ ... May Allah bless all of you always. Yupp:) Happiness is everywhere, within our reach...and friendship is indeed the magical capsule that supersedes much of the rest.

friendly flowers

Forlorn and somber moments fade away as we
Reminisce upon younger schooling days filled with rich tricks and tapestry.
Indeed – this relationship inspires a jovial mood, a glory,
Everlasting and blooming like a patch of yellow allamanda and fuchsia.
Now and forever, we are friends and it shall remain this way
D journey may have its toll; we are still friends and it shall remain this way.
Success, sickness and serendipity, and we shall remain friends forever.
Hitherto, this spirit of mine finds bliss and blessings
In this friendship and relationship that grows and glows in
Pensive ambiance and sincere stratosphere.


Thank you friends, for this special delivery.

~zue & shidee~

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muhammad ariff hazimi said...

hi everyone. what i can say about friendship is friendship is everywhere around us in this world. the relationship that appear in many ways that will be remembered all the time. somehow a friendship is basically about trust. even a long friendship will lost in a blink of an eye if the lies and cheat happen. one thing i wanna share with you all is : everything start with friends :)
thanks -JIM-

Anonymous said...

making friends is very easy,just go to facebook and add people as friend. finding true and loyal friends is a much greater challenge.

friendship is love. People use love foolishly, because it is a close bond you can feel very connected to somebody inside thru emotion.lot of people think this is where a relationship should start, but it isn't. love is beautiful and does not require sexual activities.

so,where do relationships start?it is love right? but we don't have to take it all the way, just appreciate each other and get on with being friends.

Anonymous said...

fatemeh said...

hello ma'm..I like this post because freindship remind me my friends in high school,I miss them so much......Friendship is like a violin, the music may stop now and then, but the strings will last forever.

- said...

hello ma'am..i like this post very much..it's remind me when i've met my old friends. i also like these sentence, "This inspiration came around when i saw the smile and happiness on my beloved friends, 

Knowing there is another human being you can trust completely. Realizing that someone else wants the best for you, too. Providing a gentle haven where the other can be relaxed and feel safe. Helping solve problems without taking over your friend's life Sharing the grief times along with the great times. Being together without needing to pretend. Forgiving pretenses when they do occur.

Cherishing together the joys and traumas of change and growth. Nourishing one another's dreams, hopes, and decisions along the path. Encouraging your friend to stretch as far as possible. Receiving feedback without questioning motive. Easing pain instead of fueling the fire of hurt. Loving another person in spite of differences and imperfections.

suffian said...

Hi, i like this page. Its all about friendship. We know that friend is very valuable thing in our life. Without friend, our life will be lonely and harder. If compare to our family, of course our family is the most in the middle of our age, friend is the most. We also can be bad or good depanding on our friend. if our friend is a nice person, then it a big chances to us to be like them. Eventhough maybe i dont have bestfriend forever but i still have a good friend with me where they can help when i got some problem or trouble. I still remember my great friend (not best friend) like Afiq Anuar(my old friend from 7yrs-now), Aswan(my sporting friend from 10yrs-now), Wan and all my friend in Uniten. And i know until now even i lost contact with all my old friend but i keep looking them and thank to facebook coz i meet them. Many great memory with all my friend. I will not forget until i lost my mind. :) Thanks :)

behery22 said...

without friend we will not know what is happiness. Friendships is another things that most important in our life. Without friendship our life are meaningless. This is because being friends with each other can make our life wonderful. We will know a variety of attitude and problem from many people, which can make us more ready in future. for me friends most beautiful thing in life. I learned a lot of my friends, i have a lot of friends who lived with them most beautiful moments.

Mohammed Abdelwahab Hassan

- said...

I like this post very much ma'am,
It's so meaningful, anyway True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.

Lavindran said...

Lavin here....
I would just want to add one thing here.Friendship is definitely very important to each and every human being, having a true friendship is what it really means. A friend who is there for you when you are really down is the one who perish your friendship. Therefore, live up the phrase guys " a friend in need is a friend indeed"

Anonymous said...

-Hafidz IS085692-

It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors. Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

syada said...

2) friendship is beautiful if paid with a sincerity and honesty. true friend is someone who has never let us fall when misfortune and always helped us to re-emerged with a new spirit. I had never have a faithful companion. she was the only one at that time. but God is love. she passed away. the given name is Noor Arifah bt Wazir. she had suffered pneumonia disease. she died on 09/21/2007. Our friendship was too beautiful. only God knows the joy and sorrow that we have shared since 1998. Introductions started when we were in year 1. Our friends over the years. May Allah have mercy on her. Allah’s will :’)

Anonymous said...

Hello ma'am
Friendship is important in our life. That make our life more colourful with love and joy. Without friendship, our life become more dull and not interesting.. But to build a good friendship, it need time and compatibility. We must to accept what our friend behavior and give a lot love to them. To get a love, we must give love to the friend first. Lastly, FRIENDSHIP IS BLISS..
Syazwani Mohd Sabri..=)

Mani said...

HI ma'am,

What is friendship? Friendship is a relationship between two people who hold mutual affection for each other. The person that will be with us in sad and happy time, the person that we can share everything, the person that we really feel comfortable to have a good conversation, the person who we can trust fully. Cherishing together the joys and traumas of change and growth. Nourishing one another's dreams, hopes, and decisions along the path.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank all my friends who are being with since I’m kid and become to teenager until the end of our life. I surely will tell after the parents bond, friendship is the second strongest bond that ever human can made in this life. Without friends I really will go mad and won’t be a proper path in my life. At last, friends are the family that we choose for ourselves !!!

nurfauzia said...

Assalamualaikum and hai maam,

Friendship is one of the coolest gift Allah has gave us.Friends indeed makes the another half of us and at times is what made us to be what we are now.In this walks of life, friends come and goes like leaves blown by winds.Some comes and walk away, but some sticks throughout our way.Friendship is indeed a bliss, but for some, in one part of their life, friendship is the one that made a hurtful wound deep inside their heart.Hmm, the wound due to friendship is just unbearable. Now you see them as friends, the very next second, they dont want to be your friends anymore. Even writing this is hurtful enough, imagine when it happens to someone or ourself, MasyaAllah, let these remains as words.Anyhow, still, friends are so awesome! They makes you laugh, support you, encourages you and lots more.And yes indeed, they also makes you cry, hehe.But still, everything is a lesson in our life right?So, enjoy life to the fullest.Appreciate your friends while they are still around you.Dont forget to smile!^_^

Anonymous said...

Gaone
With people who always wants to see you smile and know we all need happiness in our lives,that is true friendship and what we all want..Who will guide us if we dont have people to talk to when we are down,who will help us through hard times.But be careful because in life we have good pretenders who only wants to know whats happening in our lives and yet they dont care

Syafiq Samsi said...

the true friend will be with us during the happy and hard time.

Eventhought there is no one to be with you, Allah is always with you. No matter where you are, Allah is always listening to you.

We, as His 'hamba' must always believe with His qada' and qadar. Sometime Allah give a heavy raining and storm because later on He want to give us rainbow

behery22 said...

Friendship is a true bless it is the one of the true bonds between humans-being.a true fined might bring happiness to your sad days.But in the other hand it is hard to find a true find that's where the strength of friendship comes from.

Mohammed Abdelwahab Hassan

- said...

Hello Ma'am, and hello to everyone, i really love this post. its remind me when i have met my old friends, i also like these sentence, " this inspiration came around when i saw the smile and happiness on my beloved friends,

the real definition of friendship is a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. But such a dry definition doesn't do the concept of friendship justice. Consider these examples:
A friend is the first person you want to call when you hear good news. A friend remembers that you don't like pickles on your sandwich. A friend will accompany you on the most boring of errands and make them seem fun.
In other words, friendship is wonderful, and much ink has been spilled in citing the virtues of having friends. That's not to say friendship is easy, though. It demands time and effort, and it requires that people put someone other than themselves first sometimes. But in exchange for that work, a friend can provide an immense amount of support and comfort in good times and in bad.

in the end everyone must have a friendship, because i believe that life without friendship isn't a life,

thanks all and i wish you guys the best in your friendship life,

this is Alsaroug, Taha Yousif

Eleen said...

Yes..friendship is bliss when you really have a wonderful relationship with your friends. I do have a lot of friends. Some of the friends are just hi-bye friend, some of the friends are since primary or secondary and some from uni and church friends as well. My longest friendship that i have is since primary, but we just get close to each other during secondary. We used to talked and laughed a lot because of her funny character! She always said something silly and funny jokes and made me burst into laughter!! (Sometimes tears will burst out as well haha! I missed that moment badly!)

Although we're now far apart and we don't really keep in touch, but thanks to Facebook, i still can know what is she doing now and keep me up to date. Every of my friends are far away from each other and busy with their studies or works, and we just meet each other during festival season or semester break. But, our friendship is still concrete regardless of the time and distance.

Once awhile i will send a 'Hi, how are you?' message to my friend through fb chat messenger. Just a simple greeting, i believe this is enough to keep the friendship blissful. Of course, everyone wants a friend who can understands you well and always support,comfort and encourage you no matter what. Personally, i feel that this type of friend will create the most blissful friendship because this is the person that God send to you and will colour and make your life becomes brighter and even transform your life too!

I'm a person who always treasure the friendship that i have and i always make sure that
the relationship with my friends
will become closer and stronger day by day. I don't wish the friendship just fade away just because of any misunderstanding or any distance factor =)

alnemer bader said...

Totally agree that friendship is a bliss.

Friendship is one of the most precious gifts of life. A person who has true friends in life is lucky enough Friendship makes life thrilling. It makes life sweet and pleasant experience. Friendship is indeed, an asset in life. It can lead us to success or to doom. A true friend never lets up down even under most threatening circumstances. He/she will never jet ray you even under pressure.

Lasting friendship is indeed, a blessing. Good friends are great pillars of life. They help us to stand tall and erect in life. Friendship can make or break us. It can lead to good careers and proper living. It does not matter how often you meet your friends, but how much you care and feel for another in good times as well as in bad times. True friendship is a great asset in life. It all depends on how we choose our friends.

At the end , thank to the chances and moments that give me the honor to make my friends.

muixx said...

muizz muslim

friendship? ahhhh. who are we without them. yes, i think life is fullest if we have friend on our side, always support, always advice.

Poobalan said...

Friendship is one of the best things that can happen in human's lives. In my experience, there are two types of friends, one that laughs at you when you fall, and one that helps you to stand up when you fall. Both of these types of friends do not walk away when the real problems come, they give their hands. They will make you angry, annoy you, but they will not let you go. So as long as we live, we should not forget our friends.

bunny bie said...

Friend. How important a friend to us? We cannot imagine ourselves living in this world without a friend. Each one of us needs someone who you can call your best friend. we cannot live in this world, all by ourselves. We certainly need people around us who would help us to appreciate life more. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. Therefore, if you have found the wonderful person whom you can call your best friend, you have to cherish him/her and make that person feel that he/she is a big part of your life.

aishah ramli a.k.a ecot said...

salam and hye mam..

Friendship is bliss, friendship is harmony and friendship is peace. Friendship is a gift from god for us. Its really valuable relationship mam. For me, a truly friends will be with us when we are happy or when we are in unhappy situation. Friends are like family. We should appreciate them like we appreciate our siblings. When we are far from family, friends are the one who can replace our family. We can share our happiness and our problem. But, in this world there are a thousand type of friendship mam. For me, i am still look for a truly friends who gonna be with me when i'm really need he/she in my life. I really need a friend who cares about me and i will do the same thing to them. In friendship, we should have some kind of trust, respect and also appreciate. This is because, when we trust our friends, then we will respect them so much. We respect their attitude and their stance. Besides, when have a respect in our relationship, surely there are also have some kind of appreciate between us. Last but not least, thank you mam for this article. Enjoy your weekend and salam ramadhan for you mam! :) ..

with LOVE,FAITH & HOPE. salam

WALEED said...

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. They are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.
"People never know how special someone is until they leave, but maybe sometimes its important to leave, so they are given that chance to see how special that someone really is!"

izzaq (is086740) said...

friendship? For me, Friendship is harmony, friendship is peace, friendship is bliss. Friendship is harmony. Mutual harmony removes all dark conflicts.
Each individual has opinions of his own, but when friendship becomes the connecting link between two persons,
all conflicts are removed and they become one, right?

Asyeqal said...

Assalamualaikum and hi ma'am :)
'Friendship is bliss'..
I really agree with that, friend are what we need beside our family. They are important in most of event throughout our life. That’s why we must choose them wisely, good friend influence us also to be good.
From friendship we learn almost about everything such as honesty, responsibility and others mostly manners. In studies, friends are very important, they may be the one that help us in our studies and together get done the assignment being assigned in every class n lecture.
It’s hard to get true friend that will share everything, joy or sorrow, but if you find them, appreciate them well. That all from me, tq :)

Cesc said...

salam Pn Zue,

friendship is one of the essential thing for human to strive on this world. this is because by making friends,we can overcome difficulties by helping each other. just imagine if our car were having some engine problems and we were stranded in such a quiet place,whom will we call to ask for help ? i'll leave that one so that you can answer it yourself (:

friendship requires trust and honesty. without both of these,there's no point of being friend with someone. friendship is so precious as there were no human who want to live alone.

Vijayan Selvam said...

Friendship is the most necessary “tool“for survival. Nobody would choose to live without friends even if they had all the other good things around them. For me, friendship is all about care, empathy and love. There are so many types of friendship we can describe but I would like to share about a friendship between a father and a son. Yes it’s my own life story.

While the time is “running” and when people are chasing it, they almost left something valuable at behind them. I still remember the first day of school; I and my father were on the way to school on his classic motorbike while I was thinking that today is the “doomsday”. When we reached to school I saw many parents with their children assisting them to classroom as well as me and my father. Ironically every parent was waiting for their children until the school bell rang, but my father didn’t. With tears I was waiting for my father to fetch me.

After a while he came with his same classic motorbike again and I quickly get onto it and asked him why he wasn’t there throughout the day and he replied that “Son today would be the last day of my parenting on you. You have grown big enough and you might find new friends in your school days, so I would like to be your first friend and at the same time as best friend. This doesn’t mean that you are on your own freedom but I think that you will take a better decision from today when you are facing to any issue without getting “bad name” and remember I’m always there behind you”.

And until today I never miss the chance to share about any of my personal things with him and he is a good advisor for me. Although our age is 25 years old different, but he never miss the chance to get advice from me as well. A friendship should not look at appearance, wealth and age. By right, look at the care, empathy and love implanted in the friendship. The only ship will never “sink” is a good friendship and friendship is bliss of course.

M.Rasyidee said...

i got a friend..he has been in a jail before because of criminal things that he has been done before..but one thing that good about him is he never forget his friend whether the friend got into a trouble (finance,love,personal,& etc) or even his friend's birthday that he never forget..he is not like ordinary friend to me.. even though he is bad in the eye for most people but for me..he is the greatest friend that i ever met.

SW085790 said...

Assalamualaikum, Mdm Zue. When I saw this topic, what came in my mind is my best friends faces. It has been ages since I didn't contact with one of my best friend. I read this post, and my tears came down. It makes me remembered all moments when I with my best friend. I straightly grab my phone after I read this post and call her and we planned to hang out together soon :D
Friendship is a blessing. It is true that friendship is one of the most important things in our life. Without friend, we are nothing. When we need someone to share your feeling, the right person is the one that understands us. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity.
Here in Uniten, I’ve found my true best friend. She helps me whenever I have problems. Yeahh! I love herrrr! I pretty sure that when she read this, she will be soooo proud HEHE :p

Syazwan Ridwan said...

Assalamualaikum..
Hi ma'am, this article is so interesting. yes, friends. we need them. because they are the one who help us when we in hard situation. for me, the one who lend me some money is my friends. kidding. yes friends can make us strong. give us some spirit to fight for the life. there are bad and good friends. so we need to choose the right person because they can bring us follow their way. but all my friends are good. :) thanks to them because they color my life.

Anonymous said...

haha..this article really2 reminds me of my past. everyone can have many friend, but how many friend can be by ur side no matter how bad and how good u are. the difference between that two condition were to high. what I know is the truth friend was hard to find, but once I know them I will never forget them. so from my opinion, the truth friendship is bliss :)

wanmohdfahmi

aiskrim malaysia said...

yeah everyone have their own good relationship with their own good friends right?but,the goods friends are difficult to have.its true almost everyone has our own good friends.Goods friends that be our partner in doing homework at school,going to playing football,save their partner from being punishment because of late submission of homework and many more event eat using the same bowl.As i understand,the goods friend is a person who are ready to have bad and goods time face it together and solve the problem together.When i read this article,it reminds me to my long time story.I and my good friend of mine involve in an accident when we just finish our additional class at 9 p.m.We are rushing to going back home.both of us involve in an accident that give very bad impact to me.my mouth jaws are disposition,I had a big chin injury and had to receive 10 stitches and i cannot chew the rice,meat and chicken.My good friend his name "kucai" he accompany me at the hospital almost everyday,send me porridge and help me repair my bike."kucai" always said that my mom will angry with him because mom my will think that we join the illegal race,but we not.
But now already 5 years i haven't meet "kucai" because now his working at Singapore with his family.But now,in uniten i'm still did not meet the good friend.every person who want to be my friends are only just friend not be a goods friends.thanks.

wriiten by
Fareez

- said...

hello ma'am and evryone,
i like the topic very much,

the real definition of friendship is a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. But such a dry definition doesn't do the concept of friendship justice. Consider these examples: A friend is the first person you want to call when you hear good news. A friend remembers that you don't like pickles on your sandwich. A friend will accompany you on the most boring of errands and make them seem fun.

and i believe the True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure

hope all of us enjoy the life wif our friends.

taha yousif

salwa said...

salwa said...


Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our orginal limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

When you act silly with friends around they also comes and join you and get the enjoyment that you are getting. In the dictionary of friendship there is no word named sorrow. Friends will enter into that word and friends break the word into peices. They motivate us to attain our goal. They will stand by our side when you need a support. you will tell about a girl/guy whom you love and will ask for help for the love. You can't tell the same to parents or any other before the love starts. In our life deciding factor also there is a friend and his/her friendship is helping you. When you get problem in that love all others will run from u but not your bet friend. They help us by challenging( a challenge which motivates us) and also motivates us for reaching our aim.

When you are in college or studies you ask doubts in the subjects not to the professor but to a friend. Friends never says no to anything. They will try to help us and try to solve the doubts. When you play a friend is the first person to cheer you when you do a record. Friends will be the first to treat us without any jealous mind. friends consider the record of yours as theirs and they feel happy by telling about the record to others. In life we share most of the time with friends. We can't share some topics with our parents but we can share any topic, with friends. friends research that topic as a judge and tell us the good's and bad's

Thank you.

Noor Intan Suraya Alwee (GM086268) said...

Friendship plays a major role in an ordinary person’s life. Having few good friends is like a blessing. They say a friend in need is a friend indeed. But that will be like seeing a blessing in a relationship. A friend is someone who is always beside you, not just during the times of need but during you hard times too.

In my opinion, a friend is someone who cherishes the special moments and memories of
life with another person. A friend is a trustworthy companion. Building a friendship has similar characteristics. One meets a person and plants the seed of friendship. The friendship builds and continues to grow stronger. It requires devotion of time and patience to achieve peak communication between the two companions. The struggle to keep a solid friendship includes many obstacles and hardships during the days.

You can always share your stuff with a friend. You will always find your friend standing for you during the times of distress and sadness. Experts say, a person with good friend circle lives a longer and healthier life than those who doesn't. They are the best medicine for our boredom. Sending friendship sms and cards make our lives exciting and fun to show how much we value the friendship.

Everyone always has that one best friend that you can't forget. They were always there for you. It's funny how they are all you think about after something tragic happened. You think of them one second and then you start bursting into tears and remembering all the memories. So before it's too late, appreciate those friends you have around you before they're gone. I would like to use this opportunity to express my gratitude thanks to my one and only best friend, Adrene Aelisha for always there for me when I need her since 1993.

dharshini87 said...

hey madam,I like this post very2 much , friendship is bliss for me i agreed with it. Its remind me of my past ,,,i love my bff its a blessing for getting a good frnd ... well its goud enough for them thankyou ....
We will know a variety of attitude and problem from many people, which can make us more ready in future.
Other than that, we can share our happiness and sadness with them. when we have problem we can share and asked their advises which at last can make us feel better and happy. Friends are everyting in life without them our life is meaningless

Anonymous said...

wedyan ..

A good, faithful, loyal friend is too hard to find nowadays. I've had the good luck of having one of those rare friends in my life, we're like sisters from a different mother. What I could say is, a friend is someone who cares and , worries about you, helps you when you're in need, picks you up when you fall, never lies to you, and is always there for. Shares with you every laugh and tear, every up and down, every big and little moment, because they're with you every step of the way.
And It's wonderful to see how far you came together, when you grow up and you reminisce, and start telling stories to your kids, about that special friend that taught you the true meaning of friendship, and is still with you as if nothing has changed since you were kids…

Anonymous said...

Daniel is084525

A friend is the one whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.

joel said...

As sweet as friendship may sound, sometimes, they can be a bitter experience in one's life. It takes a lot of wisdom and patience to choose our friends carefully...

Unknown said...

Friends come from everywhere. Sometimes they come and go unexpectedly in your life. Whoever has the word friendship in their life is the luckiest person in this world. You just can’t buy the friendship from anywhere. Friendship is friendship, you can never change it.

Anonymous said...

greetings madam,
about the friendship,all i want to say is i have bestfriends here in uniten and we have done a lot of activities together and if i dont see him for a week because of different class he will rang me and ask me to meet him at hostel and i will do the same thing if we dont see each other for a week.all i can say about friendship is a true friendship is there through thick and thin,through good and bad and through rain or shine.

MWL said...

Friendship plays a huge role in our lives. Besides our family, we depend mostly our friend after we left our home. Trust is the most important element in order to ensure a friendship can last long. However, trust between 2 people is not build in days. It needs a long period for someone to trust a person who is new to him. Therefore, we should appreciate when we have someone that we really trust with. A true friendship might come only once in thousands.
A true friend
1. Will never abandon you
2. Will always think for your own good
3. Will always spend time for you
4. Will always give you advice
5. Will never hate you
6. Will never hurt your feeling
7. Will always share happiness with you

Nor Shafeera Wahab said...

Salam Ramadhan Pn Zue and friends,

Friendship is indeed a beautiful and meaningful relationship. A friend can be a shoulder to lean on, someone we can pour out emotions to, and someone who understands us besides our family.
True friends give us strength and will offer help whenever we go through a crisis or hard times. We can quickly discover real and good friends when we are down or when we require their assistance the most. Why? Because a real friend will not desert us when we are down, and will not turn against us in jealousy, for example, when we succeed.

I have moved to 6 states in the country so I definitely have made lots of friends since I was little. Eventhough the moving process was not easy, and had to leave my friends and get ready to make new friends everytime i move, I'm glad that at the end of the day I actually have lots of friends in every state i have moved. Every one of them is different and unique.

Therefore, real friendship is very essential to everyone of us in our daily lives because I think being lonely is one of the worst feeling ever. We all need at least one real good friend, but to have many is even better and more desirable.

Wan Farhan said...

ma'am
i'm a student of your's name Wan Muhammad Farhan
for me a to find a very honest, kind and a friend that would be there for us is really hard. you may find a friend that will be there when you are happy but to find a friend that would lend you his / her shoulder while you cry is really hard. for my experience that i had, I've met many people some of there were good to called friend but there are many of other were like backstabber to you. people will do anything to achieved what they want, but to find people who support u along the way to make sure u get what u want and achieved in life it's hard to find, and people like that are worthy's to be called a friend. treasure it well if you found people like that.

Wan Farhan said...

getting a new friend is very easy as simple as you were saying hi to strangers and have a little conversation and get his phone number or fb account. but to get a friend that would be there for you, a friend that would lend you his /her shoulder
while you cry, depressed and lost were hard to find. treasure a friend like this would help u a lot in life so you wont be lonely, confuse and lost because u have a friend to guide you the way.

among all the people i met there are hundred, might be thousand of them but the true friend that worthy to be called "friend" is only a little. so i treasure the friend i had because they help me too much in living my life to more meaningful.

aini nabila said...

Some people do not know what the meaning of friendship.
-Some people do not know how to appreciate the friendship.
-And some people do not know how to take care of friendship.
Have you ever wonder which are you classified?
Do you know the meaning of friendship? Do you know how to appreciate it? And do you know how to take care of it? Think for a while.
For me, friendship is really important to all people and we must know all about friendship because it is very common and familiar in our lives. People who do not have any friend absolutely cannot imagine what the friendship is and I think those people are really not know how to make a friend. When this situation happens, of course they will be lonely as they do not have any friends at all. So, that is why we must know what the meaning of friendship before we can make friends with others.
There are also some of the people know the meaning of friendship but do not know how to appreciate it. I think it is dangerous for those who are having this problem among their friends because they always create some problems which can make other people in bad feeling. For my opinion, that kind of people.
For my opinion, that kind of people cannot be a true friend to others.
In addition, there are also some of people who do not know how to take care of friendship. People in this category normally make friends as many as possible but they do not feel to keep that friendship everlasting. When they meet new friends, they forget their old friend easily. They also not able to share anything with their friends. What I can say, those people is happy time only and disappear during hard time.

Osamah Mohammed said...

farewell to the world if it doesn't give me a sincere honest friend.

nava said...

navarasithen
Actually I really love this post because this post enable me to give my opinion about friendship in my opinion friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life.

Unknown said...

Friend gives you smile
But true friend gives you happiness

Friend will lie about you
But true friend won’t tell your weakness

Friend knives your back
But true friend will slog your face

Thousands friends come when you’re happy
But only one true friend comes when you cry

Friend comes when he needs you
But true friend comes when you need him

Friend leaves when everybody does
But true friend comes when everybody leaves

Overall, FRIENDSHIP IS BLISS have inspired me a lot and i would like to say that friendship is the best relationship in the world.

Zulhilmi Zulkarnain said...

Friends. To me I would classify a friend as a relationship. A relationship that is meaningful and have its own importance following who you've befriended. We as a normal human being seeks comfort in life and the one who can bring the joy and comfort that we need is the one we call a friend. Apart from being this, a friend can also motivate us and provide us stability in our social life. Without friends, who else than your family that you could cherish. Without friends, how can I survive, particularly as a student. Is it possible to me, to achieve success, without knowing, and depending on a 'friend' along the way? I doubt that. Friendship teaches us many important values in life, and I want to obtain those values, to prepare myself into a better person.

Anonymous said...

Hadje Batoul said:

Friendship, is one of the most important relationships in our lives. We all need friends at some point .When we were young, we needed them to play with us and make us laugh. As teenagers, we want them, to be if I may say (a secret box) someone that you can tell anything without being ashamed of what they may say or think of you, someone that will never deceive you. And finally as adults we want them to share the good and the bad aspect of our lives. Our families; whether our parents, siblings or spouses, sometimes we can’t tell them everything. Because, there are always barriers and restrictions. But with friends and I mean true friends the one that never judge you, never doubt you, never regret they have met you even when you make the most unbearable mistake there are absolutely no restrictions it’s an area where freedom of speech is respected.
However, friendship has a whole different meaning to others. Im saying this because some of them take everything you do for granted, they never appreciate anything at all. My older sister had a friend, she used to call her my soulmate and every member of our Familly knew her, they were so closed, they were always together ,they were like siblings she really loved her from the bottom of her heart, she did everything to her, but at the end she betrayed her. I just wanted to say so far that, not every Friendship is a clean version of Friendship, because some of them are twisted eventhough life without friends is agonizing, they make us realize that sometimes being a loner is better than being surrounded by unfaithful people.
By the way, happy friendship day to all :)
Cheers !!!

Nursakinah Mohd Rosli SW085809 said...

About three ago, I met someone who, like me, was in a pretty rough place in her life. We were

both struggling, sad, unsure of where we would go next in our lives. The road ahead of us looked

long and, at least for me, every day that passed seemed like the longest one. The time dragged

on and on and on. My new friend and I sat together and we sulked. We watched sad movies and

exchanged sad songs. What a difference a year has made for both of us. We're still journeying

down that same road, still struggling at times, but when I look at us now I see so much strength,

so much confidence, so much happiness.

Over the past three years, we've been through a lot together, ups and downs, breakups, silly

times and serious times and we've come a long, long way from where we were. Through all of

my recent changes, she's stuck by my side, supporting me and encouraging me no matter what.

I've made a lot of changes over the past three year and, as a new friend, that might not have been

all that easy to handle, but she took my changes in stride. Like any relationship, a friendship

is a journey. It's a road two people travel down together. It can long or short, wide or narrow,

winding or straight. No matter what the road is like, a good friend will hold your hand, will cheer

you along, and will pick your ass up and drag you when you just don't feel like walking any

more.

The more I think about it today, the more I realize how important her friendship has been for

me. It has had a terrific impact on my life and though I've known her for only awhile, it feels,

sometimes, like a lifetime. Friendship is so many things to so many people and can be different

for everyone and in every relationship. As we get older, good friendships are harder to find, but,

for this reason, I think it is even more important to cherish and celebrate them. I'm fortunate to

have many great friends, both old and new. With every hardship I've had to face in life, I've been

fortunate enough to have friends by my side, journeying with me down the winding, curving

roads of life's highs and lows. The past year has been filled with change and transformation for

me and I couldn't be more grateful for those who have been beside me, supporting me.

Friends tell you the truth even when it hurts. Friends often know you better than you know

yourself. Friends meet you for lunch when your heart is broken. Friends listen to sad songs and

cry right along with you. Friends teach you the importance of a well-timed hug. Friends support

you even when you're so wrong. Friends understand and laugh at your inside jokes.

share the best music with you when you need it most. Friends listen to you complain about your

day. Friends want you to succeed and encourage you all the time. Friends look for the best in you

when you don't want to. Friends push you to do the right thing when it seems so hard. Friends

believe you should be happy and help you to believe that too. Friends refrain from judging

you when you share your secrets. Friends answer the phone late at night when you're feeling

down. Friends ask you how you're doing and actually listen when you reply. Friends are there for

you, no matter what, no matter when.

Anonymous said...

amiruddin is082709

reading this story makes me wonder how your husband faced the situation when he met his friends, as the long gone episode suddenly appear. i too have got the same opportunity as i met my lost 9 years old friend that came out from nowhere and suddenly said hi to me while i was shopping. So i think i can guess what your husband's feeling when his eyes met with his friends eyes, they all must be blank in few seconds thinking what on earth is happening right now. hehe. though the story is very interesting that prove that frendship is last forever once you be a friend to somebody, and keep thinking it, it make me want to have many friends so i too can have the same experience like your husband maam!


"Friendship is Bliss"

Asharudin (Usher) SW086577 said...

While friendship is very important, we must be careful we don't get trapped in it. Sometimes friends can hinder our progress on certain aspects of life for example studies. Finding the right balance is very essential. Hanging out with them 24/7 is only a waste of time.
That being said, friendship is a must in a human life. We can't say that we can live alone without interacting with others. I've tried to be like that before and the end result was disastrous. I was so lonely and depressed.
So, friendship is indeed a bliss =)

Hamim Zuhaier (is087984) said...

Friendship definitely is the most important relationship that we have after our family, even above our girlfriend/boyfriend ( but when a couple gets married, that partner is already considered as own family). Hence there is saying such “love comes and go, but friendship stays forever” and also special dedicated saying for guys (especially my kind); “bros before hoes”. As a growing teenager, we tend to explore things, which is mostly being done with our coeval friends. That is why we are likely to spend more time with our friends than our own family members (doesn’t mean that they are less important). This state allows our friends to participate very much in our daily life at this particular life stage, thus making them becoming really important to us day by day. A normal person would usually has their own circle of close friends, either being in a perfect pair of best friends or having a crazy group of 5,7 or more best friends. This circle is usually joined by high chemistry among them, sharing similar interest such as playing the same sport or just the comfort of having someone similar to us. I have always think that friendship is really important, it teach you a lot of important values in life but no matter what, family comes first.

Afiqah Nazman said...

Knowing there is another human being that we can trust completely. Realize that someone else wants the best for us. Providing a gentle haven where the other can be relaxed and feel safe. Help to solve problems without taking over friend life. Being together and do not have to pretend. That is what friendship means to me.

Aema Ismail said...

Assalamualaikum, Mdm Zue. When I saw this topic, what came out in my mind was my best friends faces. It has been ages since I didn't contact with one of my best friend. I read this post, and my tears came down. It makes me remembered all moments when I with my best friend. I straightly grab my phone after I read this post and call her and we planned to hang out together. :D
Friendship is a blessing. It is true that friendship is one of the most important things in our life. Without friend, we are nothing. When we need someone to share your feeling, the right person is the one that understands us. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity.
Here in Uniten, I’ve found my true best friend. She helps me whenever I have problems. Yeahh! I love herrrr! I pretty sure that when she read this, she will be soooo proud HEHE :p

Unknown said...

I think knowledge is the most important thing in our life. You can get it by reading the book, speaking with people, by listening, observing etc.. And I am in Uniten in order to get knowledge. For a while I can say, Uniten gave me a big knowledge and helped me to see IT Industry from different sides. As well as here I met with so many different people who helped me to be strong and patient. In general, Uniten help to raise one step above.

Unknown said...

Friendship is very complicated concept. Being good friend is being honest, helpful in preference to your friend. However, I think being the best friend is very difficult. Every individual has its own understanding about life, view point about certain aspects of our life, as well different interests; different habits distinguish all people from one another. And in my opinion friendship occurs, when two or more people with the same view point to the life and with the same interest meet each other. However, I think the best friends for us are or parents: mother and father, who can accept us in spite of our shortcomings.

Mamek said...

Madd says~
Assalamualaikum and greetings Puan, ya,, i do agree with you friendship is a bliss. For me after family the essential things for me is freinds. With friends we can achieve many things in this world. From friend we can get many kind of help such as personal matter advise, studies and as well as money. I feel very thankful because here in Uniten i got a lot of friends that are very kind to me. Some of them are like my elder brothers always help me, advise me. Some of them are like my lecturer, always teach me about the subject that i did not understand. Friend is about always be by your side whenever you are in happy or sorrowful state. I saw nowadays, many friends will be around you when you are happy or rich, but when you really need help where are they? Friends who are able to show themself for both situation are qualified to be called friends. Other else they only nothing. Thank you =)
SW085803

Nurhabsah Binti Jamil said...

hey Puan Zue, people needs friends and from that it will become a friendship. its not easy to gain trust in friendship because certain people have trust issue with other people. some people have become frienship in so many years but with little misunderstanding and miscommunication, they don't become a friends anymore.

where is wrong with this problem? it is because lack of trust with each other or maybe there problem that they don't share with each other? some people sometimes need a privacy even though they are friends for many years.

friendship, it is easy to get it or just need time to adapt it? in friendship is more to understanding with each other, try to share problem and support each other when problem come.

can we imagine what will happen when we don't have friends? some people says it's ok to not having friends because they think they can survive in this cruel world with their own capability. some poeple can't live in this world alone because they needs people around them to support when they have problem or somethings bad happend to them.

Noor Zuafeerah bt A.Rahman SW086574 said...

Friendship is a feeling of love of one person for another. This feeling of love must be give and take. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and hobbies are not similar. It is very important for one to have a best friend because friend is the second sibling from different parents. We share things that we can't share with our own family and they are the peson who will always support us in our bad situation and happy time.

amir firdaus said...

Mohd amir firdaus said:
I’m totally agre with you Puan Zue. Friendship is not just a bliss, it a gift from the God to the human being like us. By having a friendship with either man or woman, it will lead us to different experince in our life. By having a strong friendship, is something that every one of us want it so much. This is because that, when we have a strong friendship, it virtually like we have someone that will protect us from being harm and anything else. For me, friend will be no 2 important person in my life beside than my family of course. When writing this comment, I’m surely miss all my friends out there and I hope all of them will be just fine.

alanazi mohammed said...

if we want to be happy in life we must choose carefully our friends because friendship is all about trust and helping each others in the time of need, friends give each others good advices. so, we need to try and find a good friend.

Muhd Akmal said...

IS085730
Assalamualaikum Madam..
Friendship is one of the relation that will never end InsyaAllah. Even Rasulullah S.A.W sunnah state that a friend is like a mirror to us. What we can actually see in our friend, that’s show us. Even before we 2 person declair themselves as a love couple, they started with a chaste relation called friend. Sometimes, friend can make us know things that we don’t know. We also can learn from their experience. Some quote state that a good person learn from their mistakes, but brilliant people learn from others mistakes. Alhamdulillah I’ve known so many friends that willing to helpme when I’m in trouble. We have fun and sad moment together.

Edwin David said...

Edwin:
I could not agree more with this topic.True friendship is one to those relationship that that is ever elusive to many. To have it is a privilege that should be cherish.The joy of it what many of us enjoy the most.For me most of my best memories are with my best friends and the best part of it is true friends,they will share these memories till death due us apart.

- said...

hello ma'am and evryone,
i like the topic very much,

the real definition of friendship is a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. But such a dry definition doesn't do the concept of friendship justice. Consider these examples: A friend is the first person you want to call when you hear good news. A friend remembers that you don't like pickles on your sandwich. A friend will accompany you on the most boring of errands and make them seem fun.

and i believe the True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure

hope all of us enjoy the life wif our friends.

taha yousif

izzaq said...

Salam puan zue.
this is my opinion about friendship. In life, we do not have anyone, except themselves. When we alone, we are fortunate to have friends who understand us, as we expect integrity and honesty of a friends, so is he, but we often forget that fact. Just take cognizance of the expectations and feelings, we feel betrayed when he was not keeping its promises, we do not give him the opportunity to explain the situation. For us, the reason to cover up mistakes and defend himself. We did let him looked forward to, because we also promise not kept, we give thousands of reasons forced him to accept our ground, at that time, do you think about our feelings? Like us, he also knows, we often feel frustrated. But, we forget, the fate has a friend who always understood, are always there when we need it, He was listening to the feelings, the sense of frustration and fear we, Hopes and dreams, we expressed, He gave way as the solution path, Often we are too busy telling about ourselves, Until we sometimes forget, Our friends also have story to share with us, Did we give him the opportunity to describe feel anxious and feel fear? Can we be a source of strength, as he blew his spirit every time we feel frustrated and surrender? Can we Dost one we can be trusted, Can be a place to lean on when feeling weak, so do not fall down..?


Can we be a shoulder to lean his hope? Occasionally be a friend who heard from the only tell take the time to understand the heart and his feelings because he was a man, he is also the fear, no sense worried, sad and disappointed. He also has weaknesses and needs friends. So we must appreciate what ever our friend do to us. thank u..
:D

e said...

In this world, almost everyone do have friendship. So, what's friendship all about? In my opinion, a good frienship
is like a "walking dictionary". whenever u need help, they will be there for you. There are good and bad friendship
in our life. No matter good or bad, friendship still the most important element in our daily life. Without friendship
we are enable to survive in this world fulled of nasty thingy. With there are friends around you, they can help you
to solve, calm up down, motivate you, and so on.

I would give this example why friends are important. This situation just happenned recently where my car's battery
gone so sudden. If i have no friends around me, i would'nt solve this problem by my self because only solution is using another car to start the enjin.
My friend helped me with his car to jump start my car. So, really credit to my friends who helped me.

Last but not least, i would say friendship is really important. Therefore, appreciate what kind of friends you have
now. Maybe they are not good, but then again when situation come worst to worst, they are the one who really can help you
out.

-eugin-

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